Episode

850 Tony Gonzalez: What it Takes to Become The Greatest of All Time
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Published: Mon Sep 16 2019
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THE CRITICS ARE COMING. People understand that there will be challenges and fear when they chase their dreams. But they’re not willing to be embarrassed. Are you willing to look like a fool? To go all-in and fail? It’s a guarantee when you go after the thing you want. You have to keep putting your head out there knowing that it could get chopped off. The more you face your fears, the more self-confidence you’ll have. You will fall. You need to have the grit to use it as fuel to get back up. On today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I talk about relentlessly pursuing your passion with one of the most successful football players in history: Tony Gonzalez. Tony Gonzalez is a Pro Football Hall of Famer, retired All-Pro NFL Tight end, and father of four. He is currently an analyst on Fox NFL’s pregame show. During his career, he only missed two games and lost only two fumbles on 1,327 touches. Tony is open about his struggles with depression and self-doubt that he might not be good enough. But by working through these emotions, he has come out a more authentic and heart-centered person. So get ready to learn how to get into the flow of life on Episode 850. Some Questions I Ask: How do you get connected to the heart when there is so much ego? (8:00) When did you experience the most self-doubt? (16:00) How do people stop caring what people think about them? (31:30) Who was the most influential for you growing up? (43:00) In This Episode You Will Learn: How to get into the flow (6:00) How to use criticism as fuel (20:00) About Tony’s struggle to transition from football to commentary (22:00) An exercise for opening your heart (32:00) About the letters Tony wrote himself before games (35:00) How to parent with your heart (52:00) If you enjoyed this episode, check out the video, show notes and more at http://www.lewishowes.com/850 and follow at instagram.com/lewishowes

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The speaker thanks everyone for attending the event and announces selling 2000 tickets for the event next year.
00:00 - 01:49 (01:49)
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Community Building
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The speaker thanks everyone for attending the event and announces selling 2000 tickets for the event next year. Attendees have built successful businesses and relationships from the community.

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The speaker talks about meeting a famous athlete who holds NFL records and also mentions meeting a therapist on a podcast.
01:49 - 05:47 (03:57)
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Sports
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The speaker talks about meeting a famous athlete who holds NFL records and also mentions meeting a therapist on a podcast.

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850 Tony Gonzalez: What it Takes to Become The Greatest of All Time
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An NFL player talks about his record-breaking game where he caught 17 passes for 418 yards, despite previously leading the league in dropped passes.
05:47 - 08:34 (02:47)
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NFL
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An NFL player talks about his record-breaking game where he caught 17 passes for 418 yards, despite previously leading the league in dropped passes.

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The football player, while discussing his game, emphasizes the importance of consistency and how he strives for it every year by catching a certain number of balls and scoring touchdowns.
08:34 - 12:24 (03:49)
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Football
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The football player, while discussing his game, emphasizes the importance of consistency and how he strives for it every year by catching a certain number of balls and scoring touchdowns.

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Former NFL player shares how being passionate about catching footballs helped him love the sport and overcome the challenges of practicing every day.
12:24 - 15:03 (02:38)
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Football
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Former NFL player shares how being passionate about catching footballs helped him love the sport and overcome the challenges of practicing every day.

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Former NFL player Jerry Rice explains how his dedication and consistency in training helped him become a Hall of Famer, catching over 20,000 balls over the course of his career.
15:03 - 17:33 (02:29)
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NFL
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Former NFL player Jerry Rice explains how his dedication and consistency in training helped him become a Hall of Famer, catching over 20,000 balls over the course of his career.

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Former NFL player, Shawne Merriman, discusses the importance of discipline and focus in order to excel in any industry or business.
17:33 - 19:56 (02:23)
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Business
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Former NFL player, Shawne Merriman, discusses the importance of discipline and focus in order to excel in any industry or business.

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Former NFL player turned announcer shares advice on dealing with criticism and self-doubt, encouraging young people to keep pushing themselves and not be afraid of failure.
19:56 - 23:11 (03:15)
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Sports Mentality
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Former NFL player turned announcer shares advice on dealing with criticism and self-doubt, encouraging young people to keep pushing themselves and not be afraid of failure.

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The fear of not being able to achieve greatness again after experiencing it in the past can be paralyzing, but it's important to remember that there's always room for growth no matter how old you are.
23:11 - 28:00 (04:48)
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Personal Growth
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The fear of not being able to achieve greatness again after experiencing it in the past can be paralyzing, but it's important to remember that there's always room for growth no matter how old you are.

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In this episode, the guest explains the importance of accepting discomfort and facing fear in order to pursue what you truly want in life, even if it means looking like a fool or being judged by others.
28:00 - 32:04 (04:03)
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Personal Growth
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In this episode, the guest explains the importance of accepting discomfort and facing fear in order to pursue what you truly want in life, even if it means looking like a fool or being judged by others.

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To accelerate your experience into knowledge and wisdom, one must let go of what others think and what we think of ourselves.
32:04 - 35:08 (03:04)
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Personal Growth
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To accelerate your experience into knowledge and wisdom, one must let go of what others think and what we think of ourselves. This process is similar to catching a football, where we need to focus on the moment to achieve success.

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The speaker advocates giving oneself a 30-day challenge by doing the thing one is most insecure or embarrassed about every day to overcome fear, putting oneself in fearful situations for abundance or greatness training.
35:08 - 38:34 (03:26)
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Self-Help
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The speaker advocates giving oneself a 30-day challenge by doing the thing one is most insecure or embarrassed about every day to overcome fear, putting oneself in fearful situations for abundance or greatness training.

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A speaker shares a moment of feeling confident and capable of anything, while recalling a memory at an Air Force base.
38:34 - 40:45 (02:10)
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Confidence
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A speaker shares a moment of feeling confident and capable of anything, while recalling a memory at an Air Force base.

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The speaker shares their experience of getting in their head and becoming anxious when rehearsing speeches and overcoming fear to do something they are passionate about.
40:45 - 43:16 (02:31)
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Fear
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The speaker shares their experience of getting in their head and becoming anxious when rehearsing speeches and overcoming fear to do something they are passionate about.

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The beauty in performances comes from actors who can ad-lib from their hearts.
43:18 - 46:20 (03:02)
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Performance
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The beauty in performances comes from actors who can ad-lib from their hearts. A reminiscing guest shares how his mother serves as an example of living with one's heart.

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The discussion ranges from the expression of football lock-in, the greatest lesson a mom ever taught, to making the decision to embark on new adventures, and the reason for starting a podcast.
46:20 - 49:56 (03:35)
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Football, Life Lessons, Starting a Podcast
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The discussion ranges from the expression of football lock-in, the greatest lesson a mom ever taught, to making the decision to embark on new adventures, and the reason for starting a podcast.

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The key to pursuing your heart's desires in life is to remember who you were as a fearless child and combine it with the wisdom acquired through life experience.
49:56 - 53:55 (03:59)
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Life Lessons
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The key to pursuing your heart's desires in life is to remember who you were as a fearless child and combine it with the wisdom acquired through life experience. Emotions may never leave you, but the key is to use them to fuel your actions without being afraid to go after what you truly want in life.

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The speaker reflects on the resilience of a person who grew up with limited resources and had to deal with difficult situations.
53:55 - 57:34 (03:38)
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resilience
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The speaker reflects on the resilience of a person who grew up with limited resources and had to deal with difficult situations. He wonders if falling in love enhances a person's abilities in other areas of life.

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The speaker talks about the struggle of being seen as successful due to having wealthy parents and the importance of continuing to improve despite doubt and comparisons from others.
57:34 - 1:02:28 (04:54)
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Self-improvement
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The speaker talks about the struggle of being seen as successful due to having wealthy parents and the importance of continuing to improve despite doubt and comparisons from others.

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Two individuals discuss the importance of treating their children and the lessons they have learned as fathers.
1:02:28 - 1:08:41 (06:13)
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Fatherhood
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Two individuals discuss the importance of treating their children and the lessons they have learned as fathers.

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The speaker expresses gratitude for being inspired to create a podcast after watching another person's work, despite not knowing exactly how successful it would be.
1:08:41 - 1:12:05 (03:23)
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Inspiration
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The speaker expresses gratitude for being inspired to create a podcast after watching another person's work, despite not knowing exactly how successful it would be.

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The key to finding joy is to approach life with an open heart and without fear of judgment.
1:12:05 - 1:15:18 (03:13)
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Joy
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The key to finding joy is to approach life with an open heart and without fear of judgment. By being curious and present, we can find joy in other people's joy, and the sky is truly the limit.

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Lewis Howes interviews Tony Gonzalez about his journey to success and his new podcast Wide Open.
1:15:18 - 1:16:59 (01:40)
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podcast
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Lewis Howes interviews Tony Gonzalez about his journey to success and his new podcast Wide Open. They also encourage listeners to share the interview and leave a review for the podcast.

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850 Tony Gonzalez: What it Takes to Become The Greatest of All Time
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