Chapter
Recognizing Relationship Red Flags Early On
09:11 - 20:07 (10:55)
People often justify or ignore red flags, or blame themselves for their partner's behavior. Recognizing these red flags early on in a relationship can save future heartache and complications.
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The trauma bond in a toxic relationship can result in justifications for bad behavior and red flags like defensiveness and entitlement.
09:11 - 11:18 (02:06)
Summary
The trauma bond in a toxic relationship can result in justifications for bad behavior and red flags like defensiveness and entitlement. It can also cause a person to push away friends who may point out the unhealthy dynamics of the relationship.
ChapterRecognizing Relationship Red Flags Early On
Episode2 Secrets to Handling a Narcissist: A Toolkit for Dealing With Toxic Behavior at Work, Dating, Marriage, and Family (With World-Renowned Dr. Ramani)
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Gaslighting preys on vulnerabilities and can happen to anyone.
11:18 - 12:51 (01:33)
Summary
Gaslighting preys on vulnerabilities and can happen to anyone. Those who are vulnerable include people who come from happy families, those with traumatic histories, and those with narcissistic parents.
ChapterRecognizing Relationship Red Flags Early On
Episode2 Secrets to Handling a Narcissist: A Toolkit for Dealing With Toxic Behavior at Work, Dating, Marriage, and Family (With World-Renowned Dr. Ramani)
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
The speaker expresses concern about not recognizing red flags until well into a relationship when bonds are already formed, and discusses a personal pattern of being drawn to charismatic but potentially unhealthy partners.
12:51 - 17:33 (04:41)
Summary
The speaker expresses concern about not recognizing red flags until well into a relationship when bonds are already formed, and discusses a personal pattern of being drawn to charismatic but potentially unhealthy partners.
ChapterRecognizing Relationship Red Flags Early On
Episode2 Secrets to Handling a Narcissist: A Toolkit for Dealing With Toxic Behavior at Work, Dating, Marriage, and Family (With World-Renowned Dr. Ramani)
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
The speaker discusses how some business relationships can resemble healthy sibling bonds, with trust and mutual support, while others may involve big talk and broken promises.
17:33 - 20:07 (02:33)
Summary
The speaker discusses how some business relationships can resemble healthy sibling bonds, with trust and mutual support, while others may involve big talk and broken promises. The concept of classical conditioning, as exemplified by Pavlov's dogs, is also explored.