A speaker discusses how everyone has "the thing," and it could be as simple as being a great listener or a servant. They reference Oprah as someone who told them they have the thing.
A football player discusses how his coach inspires him by saying he wishes he could buy stock in his future.
The more we invest in ourselves by acquiring skills, healing past traumas, forgiving people, and being consistent with good habits, the more valuable we become in the future. It's important to learn to love ourselves unconditionally, without expectations.
The burden of great expectations can be challenging and even harmful. It can cost you your health and peace of mind.