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Understanding Avoidantly Attached People in Relationships
11:05 - 19:26 (08:21)
When in a relationship with an avoidantly attached person, it can be challenging to offer critique as it may trigger their core wound of feeling deficient. By focusing on fulfilling your own needs and having secure relationships, it can help in being more flexible with an avoidantly attached partner.
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Critiquing an avoidantly attached person can trigger their core wound and make it difficult for them to acknowledge their patterns and dynamics.
11:05 - 17:28 (06:23)
Summary
Critiquing an avoidantly attached person can trigger their core wound and make it difficult for them to acknowledge their patterns and dynamics. Developing a secure relationship with an avoidant individual can help them be more flexible and less likely to avoid intimacy.
ChapterUnderstanding Avoidantly Attached People in Relationships
EpisodeHow to Improve Any Relationship: The 4 Attachment Styles You Need to Know & Tools to Become More Secure
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Anxiously attached individuals tend to adjust more to the avoidantly attached person in a relationship, as the latter prioritizes their own needs and fears getting close to others.
17:28 - 19:26 (01:57)
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Anxiously attached individuals tend to adjust more to the avoidantly attached person in a relationship, as the latter prioritizes their own needs and fears getting close to others. A balanced approach that recognizes and communicates one's needs and boundaries is key in building a healthy relationship with an avoidantly attached partner.