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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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1:40:23
Published: Fri Feb 17 2023
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We some how did not upload this on Monday to the streaming, it was on youtube. Sorry. Better late than never.

Chapters
The speaker experienced technical difficulties at the beginning of the podcast and discusses other topics before getting into emails.
00:00 - 01:59 (01:59)
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Podcasts
Summary

The speaker experienced technical difficulties at the beginning of the podcast and discusses other topics before getting into emails.

Episode
2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The speaker emphasizes the importance of having people who look like us and have similar past experiences reach out to us in times of trauma, rather than receiving advice from those who appear to be perfect and idealized.
01:59 - 06:42 (04:43)
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Mental Health
Summary

The speaker emphasizes the importance of having people who look like us and have similar past experiences reach out to us in times of trauma, rather than receiving advice from those who appear to be perfect and idealized.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The speaker highlights the negative impact of shutting down someone who is trying to open up about their sufferings, leading to them suffer in silence.
06:42 - 09:30 (02:47)
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Mental Health
Summary

The speaker highlights the negative impact of shutting down someone who is trying to open up about their sufferings, leading to them suffer in silence.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The speaker emphasizes the importance of sharing information through podcasts, even if it only reaches a few people, if it can save lives or improve relationships.
09:30 - 12:39 (03:09)
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Podcasting
Summary

The speaker emphasizes the importance of sharing information through podcasts, even if it only reaches a few people, if it can save lives or improve relationships.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
You can watch others fail and learn from their mistakes, but until you experience it yourself, you won't truly understand the lesson.
12:39 - 15:58 (03:19)
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Lessons Learned
Summary

You can watch others fail and learn from their mistakes, but until you experience it yourself, you won't truly understand the lesson. Observing others can provide a rough outline of potential outcomes and prevent costly mistakes in the future.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
This episode emphasizes the importance of learning from other people's mistakes in different aspects of life, from becoming a master in a certain field to avoiding harmful life decisions, like drug addiction.
15:58 - 19:28 (03:29)
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Self-Improvement
Summary

This episode emphasizes the importance of learning from other people's mistakes in different aspects of life, from becoming a master in a certain field to avoiding harmful life decisions, like drug addiction.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
If someone is not able to meet your expectations, it's best to find somebody who wants to reach those expectations with you.
19:28 - 23:04 (03:36)
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Relationships
Summary

If someone is not able to meet your expectations, it's best to find somebody who wants to reach those expectations with you. Don't waste time hoping for someone to change, instead focus on finding a fulfilling career or starting a business where you can thrive.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
Trying to control and nag your spouse can be detrimental to your relationship and can cause them to feel emasculated.
23:04 - 27:33 (04:28)
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Relationships
Summary

Trying to control and nag your spouse can be detrimental to your relationship and can cause them to feel emasculated. It's important to communicate with your partner and understand their needs and motivations.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The host discusses the impact of negative comments on social media and email and shares tips for managing them, including not taking them personally and choosing which ones to engage with.
27:33 - 30:34 (03:01)
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Online Negativity
Summary

The host discusses the impact of negative comments on social media and email and shares tips for managing them, including not taking them personally and choosing which ones to engage with.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
A woman is hurt that her boyfriend keeps cancelling plans to visit his dad and brothers after their mom passed away, but understands it is a form of escapism for him.
30:34 - 33:26 (02:51)
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Relationships
Summary

A woman is hurt that her boyfriend keeps cancelling plans to visit his dad and brothers after their mom passed away, but understands it is a form of escapism for him.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The speaker talks about their experience with a difficult client who was not satisfied with their work despite offering to redo the entire photo shoot.
33:26 - 36:48 (03:21)
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Photography
Summary

The speaker talks about their experience with a difficult client who was not satisfied with their work despite offering to redo the entire photo shoot. They also discuss the pressure of comparing oneself to other photographers and being held to their standards.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The speaker is seeking advice for their photography business and suggests the use of crowdfunding platforms like GoFundMe and Patreon to support themselves and others in need.
36:48 - 42:14 (05:26)
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Photography, Crowdfunding, Community Support, Business
Summary

The speaker is seeking advice for their photography business and suggests the use of crowdfunding platforms like GoFundMe and Patreon to support themselves and others in need. They hope to build a community and affect change in people's lives.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
A woman shares how she used to think traditional relationships were toxic, but through personal growth and meeting her husband, realized it is what she wants and can be proud of.
42:14 - 46:16 (04:01)
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Traditional Relationships
Summary

A woman shares how she used to think traditional relationships were toxic, but through personal growth and meeting her husband, realized it is what she wants and can be proud of. She believes many people truly want to be a stay-at-home parent and feel more feminine and less stressed without a full-time job.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
A discussion on navigating mismatched sex drives in a relationship while respecting one's own wishes and boundaries.
46:16 - 50:04 (03:47)
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Relationships
Summary

A discussion on navigating mismatched sex drives in a relationship while respecting one's own wishes and boundaries.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The importance of maintaining intimacy in a relationship and setting boundaries to avoid coercion and non-consensual acts.
50:04 - 54:52 (04:48)
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Relationship
Summary

The importance of maintaining intimacy in a relationship and setting boundaries to avoid coercion and non-consensual acts. The harmful effects of emotional abuse and verbal assault in relationships were also discussed.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The speaker believes that intimacy and lust are more important than medical conditions in a relationship and that people cannot go more than three weeks without having sex nowadays.
54:52 - 57:35 (02:42)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker believes that intimacy and lust are more important than medical conditions in a relationship and that people cannot go more than three weeks without having sex nowadays.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The speaker talks about how depriving oneself of something for a long time makes experiencing it again orgasmic.
57:35 - 1:00:07 (02:32)
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Deprivation, Attention-Seeking, Sexualization
Summary

The speaker talks about how depriving oneself of something for a long time makes experiencing it again orgasmic. They also express their dislike for attention-seeking and the defense of sexualization on the internet.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The speaker is hesitant to give in to her boyfriend’s sexual desires when she doesn’t feel like it because it can make her feel like an object and not a partner.
1:00:07 - 1:03:57 (03:49)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker is hesitant to give in to her boyfriend’s sexual desires when she doesn’t feel like it because it can make her feel like an object and not a partner. She also feels bad for not being able to fulfill his needs.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
In this episode, the hosts discuss body dysmorphia during intimacy and how partners can support each other through it.
1:03:57 - 1:08:43 (04:46)
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Body Dysmorphia
Summary

In this episode, the hosts discuss body dysmorphia during intimacy and how partners can support each other through it.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The speaker discusses the importance of sexual intimacy in relationships and how it can affect the overall intimacy in a relationship.
1:08:43 - 1:16:07 (07:24)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker discusses the importance of sexual intimacy in relationships and how it can affect the overall intimacy in a relationship.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The hosts discuss the emotional toll of receiving sexual texts all day long and then having to deliver on them in person.
1:16:07 - 1:20:25 (04:17)
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Relationships
Summary

The hosts discuss the emotional toll of receiving sexual texts all day long and then having to deliver on them in person. They question if this is too much of a stressor on individuals and if it's necessary for a healthy relationship.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The speaker discusses lower libido worsened during menstruation and seeks advice on increasing it.
1:20:25 - 1:24:22 (03:57)
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Menstruation
Summary

The speaker discusses lower libido worsened during menstruation and seeks advice on increasing it. She suggests trying activities that bring joy and making time for self-care.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
The correlation of being a strong woman and handling finances don't equate, and a simple conversation with your partner can clarify how you want to share power and control in your marriage.
1:24:22 - 1:31:23 (07:00)
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Relationships
Summary

The correlation of being a strong woman and handling finances don't equate, and a simple conversation with your partner can clarify how you want to share power and control in your marriage.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
Surrendering control of finances can be seen as submitting your will to your partner, but if it improves your quality of life, it's worth it.
1:31:24 - 1:35:55 (04:30)
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Finances
Summary

Surrendering control of finances can be seen as submitting your will to your partner, but if it improves your quality of life, it's worth it. Being a strong woman is not mutually exclusive to giving control to your partner in certain areas of your life.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better
In a relationship, it's important to relinquish control and trust your partner to take on responsibilities such as starting the coffee in the morning, even if they might make mistakes.
1:35:55 - 1:39:47 (03:52)
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Relationships
Summary

In a relationship, it's important to relinquish control and trust your partner to take on responsibilities such as starting the coffee in the morning, even if they might make mistakes.

Episode
2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
Podcast
2 Be Better
The hosts discuss scheduling upcoming recordings to avoid recording all weekend, concluding that they will record tomorrow and again on Sunday since they have plans to go somewhere on Saturday.
1:39:47 - 1:40:19 (00:31)
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Podcast Recording
Summary

The hosts discuss scheduling upcoming recordings to avoid recording all weekend, concluding that they will record tomorrow and again on Sunday since they have plans to go somewhere on Saturday. The episode ends with a call to action for listeners to share the podcast and consider subscribing or supporting via Patreon.

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2 Be Better EP.09 (This is dope)
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2 Be Better