Episode
76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
52:24
Published: Thu Mar 09 2023
Description
This week we dive into the psychology behind hookup culture and casual dating in our 20’s. We are joined by the host of The Openhouse Podcast, Louise Rumball, as we discuss the cultural and societal changes that have contributed to this sexual liberation, what happens to our brain during and after a hookup, empowering ourselves through pleasure but also healthy boundaries and the science and personal stories behind why casual dating may not be for everyone. Listen now!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Chapters
This podcast explores the origins and emergence of hookup culture, the psychological intersections between relationships and casual sex, and how to navigate the often complicated terrain of hookup culture.
00:00 - 05:58 (05:58)
Summary
This podcast explores the origins and emergence of hookup culture, the psychological intersections between relationships and casual sex, and how to navigate the often complicated terrain of hookup culture.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
The unrealistic portrayal of casual sex in movies and society has led to a romanticized idea of hooking up that ignores the emptiness and disappointment that can often follow.
05:58 - 13:48 (07:49)
Summary
The unrealistic portrayal of casual sex in movies and society has led to a romanticized idea of hooking up that ignores the emptiness and disappointment that can often follow. This is partly due to the sexual liberation movement and societal pressure.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
This podcast discusses the importance of sexual liberation and how it's related to the rise of feminism and birth control.
13:48 - 22:11 (08:23)
Summary
This podcast discusses the importance of sexual liberation and how it's related to the rise of feminism and birth control. The conversation also delves into the misconception that sexual freedom is only associated with promiscuity.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
The speaker discusses the emotional impact that casual sex can have on women, including feelings of regret, loss of respect, and difficulties with future partners.
22:12 - 32:58 (10:46)
Summary
The speaker discusses the emotional impact that casual sex can have on women, including feelings of regret, loss of respect, and difficulties with future partners. They also mention the importance of aftercare in prolonging the effects of oxytocin and promoting feelings of bonding and safety.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
After care is crucial in casual hookups as it allows for a conversation about where the relationship is heading and helps to build a stronger connection between the individuals involved.
32:58 - 40:10 (07:11)
Summary
After care is crucial in casual hookups as it allows for a conversation about where the relationship is heading and helps to build a stronger connection between the individuals involved. It is important to have emotional release and communicate any feelings post-hookup.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
Understanding the difference between regret and shame can help navigate difficult feelings and determine if a partner is respectful of the conversation for moving forward in intimacy.
40:10 - 46:37 (06:26)
Summary
Understanding the difference between regret and shame can help navigate difficult feelings and determine if a partner is respectful of the conversation for moving forward in intimacy.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
It is essential to stay in touch with your negative emotions to avoid possible regret or shame in the future.
46:37 - 53:54 (07:16)
Summary
It is essential to stay in touch with your negative emotions to avoid possible regret or shame in the future. Writing down your thoughts and waiting 24 hours before responding may be helpful in dealing with complex emotions.
Episode76. Hookup culture and casual dating in your 20’s ft. Louise Rumball
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
Join Katie Couric on her podcast Next Question for conversations about resilience in the face of adversity, and tune in to Deeply Well with Debbie Brown for conscious conversations about wellbeing and healing.
53:54 - 55:23 (01:28)
Summary
Join Katie Couric on her podcast Next Question for conversations about resilience in the face of adversity, and tune in to Deeply Well with Debbie Brown for conscious conversations about wellbeing and healing.