Episode

The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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Published: Fri Apr 09 2021
Description

“We don’t create momentum by talking, we create it by doing.”Today's guest is Tom Bilyeu. Tom is a billion dollar entrepreneur who built his success from the ground up. He is the CEO and co-founder of Impact Theory, a media studio created to influence the cultural subconscious by producing empowering non-fiction & fiction content across multiple mediums. Tom also was the co-founder of Quest Nutrition, which he helped grow to be the 2nd fastest-growing Inc. 500 billion dollar company by 57,000%.In this episode Lewis and Tom discuss the types of personalities that Tom feels are intoxicating, the keys to relaxation and relationships. advice on marriage and creating rituals for success. Tom’s master plan to become bigger than Walt Disney, and so much more!For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1095Check out his website: www.impacttheory.comThe Wim Hof Experience: Mindset Training, Power Breathing, and Brotherhood: https://link.chtbl.com/910-podA Scientific Guide to Living Longer, Feeling Happier & Eating Healthier with Dr. Rhonda Patrick: https://link.chtbl.com/967-podThe Science of Sleep for Ultimate Success with Shawn Stevenson: https://link.chtbl.com/896-pod

Chapters
Interview with the CEO and Co-Founder of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu, discussing his journey in building Quest Nutrition, emphasizing the importance of mastering mindset to achieve success, and finding happiness.
00:00 - 02:18 (02:18)
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Entrepreneurship
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Interview with the CEO and Co-Founder of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu, discussing his journey in building Quest Nutrition, emphasizing the importance of mastering mindset to achieve success, and finding happiness.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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The School of Greatness
The speaker highlights the importance of recognizing the role of the brain in negative self-talk and taking steps to center oneself.
02:18 - 05:52 (03:34)
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Self-Talk
Summary

The speaker highlights the importance of recognizing the role of the brain in negative self-talk and taking steps to center oneself. The internal dialogue is something universal and changing the negative self-talk requires understanding the brain better.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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The desire to become the greatest in any profession and the importance of reinventing oneself are discussed, using Kobe Bryant as an example.
05:52 - 13:20 (07:28)
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self-improvement
Summary

The desire to become the greatest in any profession and the importance of reinventing oneself are discussed, using Kobe Bryant as an example.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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Your beliefs have a significant impact on your personal growth.
13:20 - 16:34 (03:14)
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Personal growth
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Your beliefs have a significant impact on your personal growth. If you believe that your efforts will lead to skill development, you will put your energy into it and achieve your goals.

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It's important to take time off to deal with personal issues and mental health struggles, as everyone goes through difficult periods in life.
16:34 - 20:55 (04:21)
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Mental Health
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It's important to take time off to deal with personal issues and mental health struggles, as everyone goes through difficult periods in life. Impact Theory aims to create a workplace culture where employees feel comfortable asking for time off when needed, to avoid underperformance and burnout.

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A desire for friends to constantly improve themselves for personal reasons is important for the speaker, as it can be difficult to keep up with those who are constantly striving for self-improvement.
20:55 - 26:26 (05:31)
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Personal Development
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A desire for friends to constantly improve themselves for personal reasons is important for the speaker, as it can be difficult to keep up with those who are constantly striving for self-improvement.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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When we slow down and take time with our loved ones, we can truly appreciate the bonds we have formed.
26:26 - 30:37 (04:11)
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Relationships
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When we slow down and take time with our loved ones, we can truly appreciate the bonds we have formed. Whether it’s taking days off together or simply enjoying each other’s presence, these moments can create lasting memories and strengthen relationships.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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The speaker discusses the neuroscience of how humans biologically sync up and the relationship between caretaking and taking on a new identity as a unit.
30:37 - 34:38 (04:01)
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Neuroscience
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The speaker discusses the neuroscience of how humans biologically sync up and the relationship between caretaking and taking on a new identity as a unit.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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The hosts discuss the importance of taking a step back and deescalating arguments in relationships by reminding each other of their love and focusing on finding a resolution.
34:38 - 40:07 (05:28)
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Relationships
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The hosts discuss the importance of taking a step back and deescalating arguments in relationships by reminding each other of their love and focusing on finding a resolution. They emphasize the joy and satisfaction of wanting your partner to win, even if it means admitting that you were wrong.

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The speaker emphasizes the importance of being honest in challenging situations and communicating effectively with people.
40:07 - 46:13 (06:06)
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Communication, Time Management, Well-being
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of being honest in challenging situations and communicating effectively with people. Additionally, they share their experience of taking time off work to prioritize their well-being.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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The satisfaction of being the best in a narrow band is what provides joy and fulfillment in life, even if it is not a money-making activity.
46:13 - 52:31 (06:17)
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Joy, Niche
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The satisfaction of being the best in a narrow band is what provides joy and fulfillment in life, even if it is not a money-making activity. Pursuing niche interests and going ultra hard on them is key to finding joy.

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The ability to meet minimum requirements in social and interpersonal skills is important in many jobs, such as being a bouncer, while the capacity to process data is admirable but not necessarily essential.
52:31 - 57:23 (04:51)
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Social Skills, Work Ethic, Processing Data
Summary

The ability to meet minimum requirements in social and interpersonal skills is important in many jobs, such as being a bouncer, while the capacity to process data is admirable but not necessarily essential. Work ethic and discipline are also valuable traits, as seen in the Disney park employees who keep the magic alive.

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The speaker explores different strategies for self-soothing, learned through interviews with others and personal experimentation, as a way to manage emotional reactions and let go of past traumas.
57:23 - 1:02:15 (04:52)
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Self-Help
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The speaker explores different strategies for self-soothing, learned through interviews with others and personal experimentation, as a way to manage emotional reactions and let go of past traumas.

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The importance of holding yourself accountable when making mistakes and not letting yourself off the hook too quickly.
1:02:16 - 1:07:53 (05:37)
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Self-Improvement
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The importance of holding yourself accountable when making mistakes and not letting yourself off the hook too quickly. Leaning into the negative emotions can be helpful in improving oneself.

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The speaker shares personal insights on the importance of communication and respecting each other's roles in a business partnership.
1:07:53 - 1:14:38 (06:45)
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Business partnerships
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The speaker shares personal insights on the importance of communication and respecting each other's roles in a business partnership. They also discuss the necessity of reevaluating the partnership if necessary.

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In this podcast, the interviewee discusses the difficulty of rank ordering values, overcoming stagnation and practical habits that can accompany meditative practices.
1:14:38 - 1:18:26 (03:47)
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Personal Development
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In this podcast, the interviewee discusses the difficulty of rank ordering values, overcoming stagnation and practical habits that can accompany meditative practices.

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The speaker shares his realization that impacting 100% of the world requires storytelling, rather than just providing guidance on how to improve one's life.
1:18:26 - 1:21:22 (02:56)
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Personal Growth
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The speaker shares his realization that impacting 100% of the world requires storytelling, rather than just providing guidance on how to improve one's life.

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The speaker discusses the benefits of learning at your own pace and highlights the success of someone who learned through their own methods.
1:21:22 - 1:26:07 (04:45)
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Education
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The speaker discusses the benefits of learning at your own pace and highlights the success of someone who learned through their own methods.

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This episode discusses how understanding the differences between men and women can lead to greater understanding and connection.
1:26:07 - 1:31:33 (05:26)
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Sexual Selection
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This episode discusses how understanding the differences between men and women can lead to greater understanding and connection.

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In this podcast, the discussion revolves around the three most important things that each partner needs to cultivate a healthy, happy long-term relationship: taking personal responsibility, regular communication, and showing gratitude.
1:31:33 - 1:35:04 (03:30)
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Relationship
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In this podcast, the discussion revolves around the three most important things that each partner needs to cultivate a healthy, happy long-term relationship: taking personal responsibility, regular communication, and showing gratitude.

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The Gulag Archipelago is a must-read book that provides a profound understanding of how people ended up in Russian internment camps, as seen through the perspective of its author, who was once a captive.
1:35:04 - 1:37:53 (02:49)
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Books
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The Gulag Archipelago is a must-read book that provides a profound understanding of how people ended up in Russian internment camps, as seen through the perspective of its author, who was once a captive. The book contains insights into human behavior that are still relevant today, such as how once women latch onto something, they are not backing down.

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The speaker expresses their reluctance towards leading an events business due to the pressure and expectations that come with it.
1:37:53 - 1:42:59 (05:06)
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Business
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The speaker expresses their reluctance towards leading an events business due to the pressure and expectations that come with it. They highlight the challenge of having to promote events and worrying about disappointing attendees.

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The speaker talks about the importance of giving honest feedback in the business world, even if it may be uncomfortable or difficult.
1:42:59 - 1:45:09 (02:09)
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Business Communication
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The speaker talks about the importance of giving honest feedback in the business world, even if it may be uncomfortable or difficult. They share personal experiences where they have been honest, but it has not always been positively received.

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The popularity of a show can open doors and provide access to people and executives that wouldn't have been possible otherwise.
1:45:09 - 1:47:34 (02:24)
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Showbiz
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The popularity of a show can open doors and provide access to people and executives that wouldn't have been possible otherwise. This can lead to expanding the business and opportunities in different regions, potentially ending up like the next Disney.

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The speaker discusses the challenges of entering the comic industry and how to achieve a Walt Disney-like vision, whether it's through writing or directing.
1:47:34 - 1:52:25 (04:50)
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Comics
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The speaker discusses the challenges of entering the comic industry and how to achieve a Walt Disney-like vision, whether it's through writing or directing.

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This episode discusses the importance of committing to your beliefs, values, and dreams, and taking a massive risk to achieve them, even if it is not the most popular decision amongst people.
1:52:25 - 1:56:26 (04:00)
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Risk-taking
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This episode discusses the importance of committing to your beliefs, values, and dreams, and taking a massive risk to achieve them, even if it is not the most popular decision amongst people.

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Sign up for a secret texting community to receive monthly or weekly inspirational messages from this podcast while also gaining insight and interviews on personal growth and mindset development.
1:56:26 - 1:57:47 (01:20)
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Inspiration
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Sign up for a secret texting community to receive monthly or weekly inspirational messages from this podcast while also gaining insight and interviews on personal growth and mindset development.

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The Mindset of Success in Marriage & Business w/Tom Bilyeu EP 1095
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