Episode
A MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
50:05
Published: Fri Jun 17 2022
Description
Today's episode is a masterclass from impactful episodes all about narcissism in order to help you understand and improve certain relationships in your life.In this episode, you will learn:How to spot signs of a narcissist w/ Behavioral Investigator Vanessa Van EdwardsHow to view narcissism w/ Psychologist Dr. Ramani DurvasulaThe main traits of a narcissist w/ Psychotherapist Lori GottliebFor more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1281Full episodes:Vanessa Van Edwards: https://link.chtbl.com/1231-podDr. Ramani Durvasula: https://link.chtbl.com/1195-pod & https://link.chtbl.com/1196-podLori Gottlieb: https://link.chtbl.com/1191-pod
Chapters
This podcast discusses the different types of cues that toxic people display and how they can cause us to act out of integrity.
00:00 - 02:37 (02:37)
Summary
This podcast discusses the different types of cues that toxic people display and how they can cause us to act out of integrity. It provides tips on how to deal with toxic people in our lives.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Researchers found that liars tend to lean away from their lies as if wanting to distance themselves from the deceit.
02:37 - 06:01 (03:24)
Summary
Researchers found that liars tend to lean away from their lies as if wanting to distance themselves from the deceit. People tend to do a 'shame touch' when telling an embarrassing true story, but not when telling a made-up one.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Learning to recognize the cues of manipulation in speech, such as a fake deep voice, can help you spot deception.
06:01 - 09:18 (03:17)
Summary
Learning to recognize the cues of manipulation in speech, such as a fake deep voice, can help you spot deception. While a naturally deep voice is seen as a sign of competence, a fake deep voice may be a red flag for manipulation.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Toxic people push us out of integrity, forcing us to constantly portray warm cues even when we don't want to, leading to potential long-term negative consequences.
09:18 - 11:47 (02:29)
Summary
Toxic people push us out of integrity, forcing us to constantly portray warm cues even when we don't want to, leading to potential long-term negative consequences.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker discusses two strategies for dealing with a colleague you don't connect with - limiting interactions to the minimum required or having a conversation after a few months to be honest about not wanting to be fake.
11:47 - 15:51 (04:04)
Summary
The speaker discusses two strategies for dealing with a colleague you don't connect with - limiting interactions to the minimum required or having a conversation after a few months to be honest about not wanting to be fake.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The guest speaker talks about the importance of social cues in communication and shares a helpful tip on how to acknowledge someone's presence based on your relationship with them.
15:51 - 18:27 (02:36)
Summary
The guest speaker talks about the importance of social cues in communication and shares a helpful tip on how to acknowledge someone's presence based on your relationship with them.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The inner core of narcissism is characterized by a lack of empathy, entitlement, grandiosity, validation seeking, a sense of envy for others, and a hidden inner core of inadequacy that is protected by a suit of armor of self-promotion.
18:27 - 21:32 (03:05)
Summary
The inner core of narcissism is characterized by a lack of empathy, entitlement, grandiosity, validation seeking, a sense of envy for others, and a hidden inner core of inadequacy that is protected by a suit of armor of self-promotion.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Dr. Ramani Durvasula explains the characteristics of malignant narcissism, which is more dangerous than grandiose narcissism, as it often involves manipulation, aggression, and isolation, making it more difficult for victims to seek help.
21:32 - 25:19 (03:46)
Summary
Dr. Ramani Durvasula explains the characteristics of malignant narcissism, which is more dangerous than grandiose narcissism, as it often involves manipulation, aggression, and isolation, making it more difficult for victims to seek help.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The best outcome for dealing with a narcissistic relationship is to have no contact with the narcissist.
25:19 - 28:33 (03:14)
Summary
The best outcome for dealing with a narcissistic relationship is to have no contact with the narcissist. If you need to stay in the relationship, don't engage, don't defend, don't personalize, and practice radical acceptance.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker addresses the concept of jealousy in relationships, acknowledging that it can often signal the beginning of the end.
28:33 - 30:44 (02:10)
Summary
The speaker addresses the concept of jealousy in relationships, acknowledging that it can often signal the beginning of the end. However, he also notes that normal evolutionary jealousy can be overcome in a trusting relationship.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The podcast discusses the pros and cons of sharing children's special moments on social media and the potential impact on their privacy and future.
30:44 - 33:56 (03:12)
Summary
The podcast discusses the pros and cons of sharing children's special moments on social media and the potential impact on their privacy and future.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
This podcast talks about different signs that can indicate if the person you are dating is a narcissist, such as being grandiose and lacking empathy, and how certain childhood experiences can make people more prone to attracting narcissistic partners.
33:56 - 36:38 (02:42)
Summary
This podcast talks about different signs that can indicate if the person you are dating is a narcissist, such as being grandiose and lacking empathy, and how certain childhood experiences can make people more prone to attracting narcissistic partners.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Narcissistic individuals or those with narcissistic traits typically do not come to therapy on their own, but rather are brought in by their partners.
36:38 - 40:24 (03:46)
Summary
Narcissistic individuals or those with narcissistic traits typically do not come to therapy on their own, but rather are brought in by their partners. This poses a challenge for therapists as they need both parties to willingly participate in therapy.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In couples therapy, taking responsibility is essential.
40:24 - 46:17 (05:53)
Summary
In couples therapy, taking responsibility is essential. One needs to work on themselves first rather than coming in and just blaming the partner for everything.
EpisodeA MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Couples therapy can be a way to improve communication outside of the therapy room and address personal struggles within the relationship.
46:17 - 49:49 (03:32)
Summary
Couples therapy can be a way to improve communication outside of the therapy room and address personal struggles within the relationship. It allows individuals to reflect on past behaviors and change their approach to improve their relationships.