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2 Be Better Podcast Ep.17
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2:32:27
Published: Mon Apr 10 2023
Description

We are the 2 Be Better Podcast. We read emails from listeners and give advice on communication, opinions on what they are going through and try to solve issues they are having. Unbiased and unfiltered. Trying to make you better with each episode. 00:50:46 - Good intentions end in disaster 1:59:22 - Advice please02:12 - I need to know if I am the problem 2:26:52 - Question for the day

Chapters
The frequent switching of camera angles can keep audiences engaged longer during video content.
00:00 - 03:09 (03:09)
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Video Content
Summary

The frequent switching of camera angles can keep audiences engaged longer during video content. However, in certain setups, limiting the camera angles or having a consistent side-by-side view can also be effective.

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The speaker discusses their desire to start a part-time YouTube channel dedicated to unboxing videos, but emphasizes the time-consuming aspects of recording and editing.
03:09 - 06:50 (03:40)
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YouTube content creation
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The speaker discusses their desire to start a part-time YouTube channel dedicated to unboxing videos, but emphasizes the time-consuming aspects of recording and editing. They also mention their monetization plans once they reach a certain threshold of subscribers and watched hours.

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The speaker discusses their desire to create a thought-provoking and potentially controversial t-shirt design with phrases such as "That's Not in the Cards" and "Love is Not Enough".
06:50 - 09:11 (02:20)
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T-Shirt Design
Summary

The speaker discusses their desire to create a thought-provoking and potentially controversial t-shirt design with phrases such as "That's Not in the Cards" and "Love is Not Enough". They also mention the appeal of using a double entendre and the concept of abstraction in their designs.

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Taking accountability for one's actions and being a strong communicator are vital for success and building a strong brand.
09:11 - 15:20 (06:09)
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Accountability
Summary

Taking accountability for one's actions and being a strong communicator are vital for success and building a strong brand. In a scenario where a person failed their job during a fire, their responsibility and communication skills were put to the test.

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The hosts discuss the importance of accountability in their role as mentors and how they prioritize providing guidance over validation for their audience.
15:20 - 20:12 (04:51)
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mentorship
Summary

The hosts discuss the importance of accountability in their role as mentors and how they prioritize providing guidance over validation for their audience. They also express the need for confidence and personal growth in those they mentor.

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The podcast hosts discuss their desire to grow their following on social media and the potential for monetization, while acknowledging the challenges of balancing content creation and audience engagement.
20:12 - 25:44 (05:32)
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Social Media
Summary

The podcast hosts discuss their desire to grow their following on social media and the potential for monetization, while acknowledging the challenges of balancing content creation and audience engagement.

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Super chats make up a significant portion of the revenue generated on YouTube channels, and they allow creators to continue producing content for their audience.
25:44 - 29:32 (03:47)
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YouTube
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Super chats make up a significant portion of the revenue generated on YouTube channels, and they allow creators to continue producing content for their audience. They can also make live streaming much easier by providing additional assistance in operating the equipment.

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The speaker shares their thoughts on the desire to mentor others rather than commit to life coaching, using Peter McKinnon as an example of success.
29:32 - 36:21 (06:49)
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Mentoring
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The speaker shares their thoughts on the desire to mentor others rather than commit to life coaching, using Peter McKinnon as an example of success.

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The speaker shares some personal experiences of awkward moments with people where he said things that made him seem weird or off-beat.
36:21 - 40:35 (04:14)
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Personal Experience
Summary

The speaker shares some personal experiences of awkward moments with people where he said things that made him seem weird or off-beat.

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Our Patreon community offers early access to content, live streams, and a discord community.
40:35 - 46:32 (05:56)
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Patreon
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Our Patreon community offers early access to content, live streams, and a discord community. By being part of our community, you can focus on improving your communication skills for better mental health and access exclusive content.

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The hosts discuss the inappropriate use of Patreon messaging system and encourage people to use email instead.
46:32 - 50:43 (04:10)
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Patreon
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The hosts discuss the inappropriate use of Patreon messaging system and encourage people to use email instead. They also talk about the benefits of using Patreon on a browser for access to additional content and the possibility of transitioning to a carnivorous diet.

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The speakers discuss how the gender stereotype that women are overly emotional and sensitive can contribute to toxic behavior in relationships, and how men need to understand and validate their partner's emotions instead of dismissing them.
50:43 - 54:47 (04:03)
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Relationships
Summary

The speakers discuss how the gender stereotype that women are overly emotional and sensitive can contribute to toxic behavior in relationships, and how men need to understand and validate their partner's emotions instead of dismissing them.

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The way a conversation is initiated matters and it can have an impact on the rest of the conversation.
54:47 - 58:22 (03:35)
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Communication
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The way a conversation is initiated matters and it can have an impact on the rest of the conversation. Simple phrases like "good morning" or "how did you sleep?" can set a positive and productive tone.

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The speaker discusses the challenges of living with borderline personality disorder and the importance of open and honest communication with a partner to avoid misunderstandings and prevent small issues from becoming bigger problems.
58:22 - 1:01:48 (03:25)
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borderline personality disorder
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The speaker discusses the challenges of living with borderline personality disorder and the importance of open and honest communication with a partner to avoid misunderstandings and prevent small issues from becoming bigger problems.

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In this podcast, the speaker discusses how their relationship has had minor disagreements, but they believe it to be a healthy relationship in comparison to their past experiences.
1:01:48 - 1:06:01 (04:12)
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Relationships
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In this podcast, the speaker discusses how their relationship has had minor disagreements, but they believe it to be a healthy relationship in comparison to their past experiences.

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The speaker acknowledges that it can be difficult to not get defensive during emotional situations, and encourages communication to clarify intentions and avoid misunderstandings.
1:06:01 - 1:09:15 (03:14)
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Communication
Summary

The speaker acknowledges that it can be difficult to not get defensive during emotional situations, and encourages communication to clarify intentions and avoid misunderstandings.

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The speaker expresses the importance of being able to control one's emotions and not making your partner afraid to talk to you in order to have a healthy relationship.
1:09:15 - 1:16:08 (06:53)
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Relationship Advice
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The speaker expresses the importance of being able to control one's emotions and not making your partner afraid to talk to you in order to have a healthy relationship.

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Anxious attachment styles can cause individuals to constantly seek attention from their partners in negative situations, leading to a pattern of manipulation and feeling dependent on them for emotional support.
1:16:08 - 1:19:19 (03:10)
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Anxiety
Summary

Anxious attachment styles can cause individuals to constantly seek attention from their partners in negative situations, leading to a pattern of manipulation and feeling dependent on them for emotional support.

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The ability to filter frustration and vent the frustrations of a meltdown into what actually needs to be addressed is essential for effective leadership.
1:19:19 - 1:23:49 (04:29)
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Leadership
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The ability to filter frustration and vent the frustrations of a meltdown into what actually needs to be addressed is essential for effective leadership. Leaders who constantly have meltdowns can be difficult to deal with on a daily basis.

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The speaker shares about how her logic-minded nature and emotional intelligence had helped her better handle communication with colleagues.
1:23:49 - 1:26:22 (02:32)
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Communication, Emotional Intelligence
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The speaker shares about how her logic-minded nature and emotional intelligence had helped her better handle communication with colleagues. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing emotional needs in work relationships.

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The conversation of deleting messages can pose a problem when it comes to accurately reflecting communication dynamics between individuals.
1:26:22 - 1:29:49 (03:27)
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Digital Communication
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The conversation of deleting messages can pose a problem when it comes to accurately reflecting communication dynamics between individuals. Participants in digital conversations may selectively delete and edit out dialogue, presenting a limited and potentially inaccurate record of the conversation.

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The importance of prioritizing tasks and relationships is discussed, highlighting the fact that certain situations, such as work or boys night, may take priority over partners in certain moments.
1:29:49 - 1:33:00 (03:10)
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Relationships
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The importance of prioritizing tasks and relationships is discussed, highlighting the fact that certain situations, such as work or boys night, may take priority over partners in certain moments.

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Men's attention and thought process are different from women.
1:33:00 - 1:37:13 (04:13)
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Men, Attention, Thought Process
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Men's attention and thought process are different from women. They may not be able to give their undivided attention when they are focused on something else, which is normal.

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The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning how to deal with negative emotions on your own and only reaching out to others if they can offer genuine help or advice.
1:37:13 - 1:42:50 (05:36)
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Emotional Management
Summary

The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning how to deal with negative emotions on your own and only reaching out to others if they can offer genuine help or advice. Emotions should be processed and not be based on the search for something to be sad or angry about.

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The key to resolving conflict in relationships is having a touch-up conversation where both parties are calm and able to apologize for their actions.
1:42:50 - 1:46:24 (03:34)
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Relationships
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The key to resolving conflict in relationships is having a touch-up conversation where both parties are calm and able to apologize for their actions. Communication is also key, acknowledging when you feel triggered and need a minute to collect yourself.

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This episode explores the importance of maintaining self-respect in relationships and not compromising on one's beliefs and values to please the world.
1:46:24 - 1:49:33 (03:08)
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Relationships.
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This episode explores the importance of maintaining self-respect in relationships and not compromising on one's beliefs and values to please the world.

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Social media actions speak louder than words.
1:49:33 - 1:52:14 (02:41)
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Social Media
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Social media actions speak louder than words. Analyzing body language and posture in videos is important and often overlooked.

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Doing chores can make both partners feel taken care of and appreciated, but it's important to communicate what tasks each person is comfortable with.
1:52:14 - 1:54:46 (02:31)
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Relationships
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Doing chores can make both partners feel taken care of and appreciated, but it's important to communicate what tasks each person is comfortable with.

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The speaker expresses their love for homemade mashed potatoes and how they can't add as much to home fried potatoes.
1:54:46 - 1:56:29 (01:43)
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Food
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The speaker expresses their love for homemade mashed potatoes and how they can't add as much to home fried potatoes. They also mention eating three plates of mashed potatoes with barbecue chicken and compare the dish to a scene from The Green Mile.

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The hosts discuss how people should mind their own business when it comes to other people's relationships and fashion choices.
1:56:30 - 2:00:05 (03:35)
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Personal Boundaries
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The hosts discuss how people should mind their own business when it comes to other people's relationships and fashion choices.

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Two individuals discuss the concept of traditional relationships and how people who do not conform to the societal norms still benefit from the principles of traditional relationships in maintaining their romantic bonds.
2:00:05 - 2:02:46 (02:40)
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Relationships
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Two individuals discuss the concept of traditional relationships and how people who do not conform to the societal norms still benefit from the principles of traditional relationships in maintaining their romantic bonds.

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If your partner offers to buy you a car as a symbol of commitment, it's okay to accept it as long as you trust him and believe that he is doing it for the long term.
2:02:46 - 2:06:32 (03:46)
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Relationships
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If your partner offers to buy you a car as a symbol of commitment, it's okay to accept it as long as you trust him and believe that he is doing it for the long term. It's important to communicate and acknowledge the big step being taken.

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The speaker discusses the importance of men providing and helping their partners and families, and how this can be a sign of a good man.
2:06:32 - 2:08:54 (02:21)
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Relationships
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The speaker discusses the importance of men providing and helping their partners and families, and how this can be a sign of a good man. However, she also acknowledges that not all men are good and cautions against blindly trusting someone based solely on their ability to provide.

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The speaker is considering buying a Class B Van for co-parenting as there may be scenarios where they need to figure out who will be moving in and set their jobs.
2:08:54 - 2:12:19 (03:24)
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Co-parenting
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The speaker is considering buying a Class B Van for co-parenting as there may be scenarios where they need to figure out who will be moving in and set their jobs. They also mention that one parent could potentially become a housewife if they are not working, and they discuss how they can accommodate weekend activities for their children.

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A listener questions if she is the problem in her relationship when she finds out her boyfriend might still have feelings for his ex-girlfriend who cheated on him.
2:12:20 - 2:16:31 (04:10)
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Relationships
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A listener questions if she is the problem in her relationship when she finds out her boyfriend might still have feelings for his ex-girlfriend who cheated on him.

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Whether you're married or just living with your partner, you have a duty to them and that includes fidelity.
2:16:31 - 2:21:34 (05:03)
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Relationships
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Whether you're married or just living with your partner, you have a duty to them and that includes fidelity.

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The podcast discusses the value of non-sexual intimacy in a relationship and how it can compensate for a lack of sex.
2:21:35 - 2:26:13 (04:38)
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Relationships
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The podcast discusses the value of non-sexual intimacy in a relationship and how it can compensate for a lack of sex. They also explore the different aspects that make a successful relationship, beyond things like cooking or financial contributions.

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This conversation highlights the importance of loving others despite their differences and beliefs, and how it is possible to disagree with someone's actions while still showing support and compassion for them.
2:26:13 - 2:30:41 (04:27)
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Love, Compassion
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This conversation highlights the importance of loving others despite their differences and beliefs, and how it is possible to disagree with someone's actions while still showing support and compassion for them.

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The podcast ends with a call to support the channel through Super Chat on YouTube or Patreon membership for exclusive content and early releases.
2:30:41 - 2:32:24 (01:43)
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Support
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The podcast ends with a call to support the channel through Super Chat on YouTube or Patreon membership for exclusive content and early releases.

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