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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
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Published: Fri Jan 14 2022
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Welcome to another episode of The Tim Ferriss Show, where it is my job to deconstruct world-class performers to tease out the routines, habits, et cetera that you can apply to your own life.You’ll get plenty of that in this special episode, which features my interview with Michael Gervais from my 2017 TV Show Fear{less}. The “less” is in parentheses because the objective is to teach you to fear less, not to be fearless.Fear{less} features in-depth, long-form conversations with top performers, focusing on how they’ve overcome fears and made hard decisions, embracing discomfort and thinking big.It was produced by Wild West Productions, and I worked with them to make both the video and audio available to you for free, my dear listeners. You can find the video of this episode on YouTube.com/TimFerriss, and eventually you’ll be able to see all episodes for free at YouTube.com/TimFerriss.Spearheaded by actor/producer and past podcast guest Vince Vaughn, Wild West Productions has produced a string of hit movies including The Internship, Couples Retreat, Four Christmases, and The Break-Up.In 2020, Wild West produced the comedy The Opening Act, starring Jimmy O. Yang and Cedric The Entertainer. In addition to Fear{less}, their television credits include Undeniable with Joe Buck, ESPN’s 30 for 30 episode about the ’85 Bears, and the Netflix animated show F is for Family.Please enjoy!*This episode is brought to you by “5-Bullet Friday,” my very own email newsletter that every Friday features five bullet points highlighting cool things I’ve found that week, including apps, books, documentaries, gadgets, albums, articles, TV shows, new hacks or tricks, and—of course—all sorts of weird stuff I’ve dug up from around the world.It’s free, it’s always going to be free, and you can subscribe now at tim.blog/friday.*How Michael helped daredevil Felix Baumgartner mentally prepare for his 24-mile fall to earth from the edge of space. [05:06]What does extinguishing phobia look like? [08:07]What was Michael’s childhood like? After moving away from their farm, how did his family help him adjust to life in the big city? [10:48]How Fight Club SoCal led to Surfin’ USA, and what kept Michael’s ambitions in check during this time. [13:48]How Michael began to rein in this anxiety, and who was there to help him. [17:24]Michael describes the week he spent at the bottom of the Grand Canyon, and how it changed his life. [18:37]How Michael became involved in the world of performance psychology, the mentor who guided him, and what his first lessons as a teacher looked like. [21:24]Michael and I share our basic life philosophies. [23:27]What was Michael’s first paid gig with an athlete, and why is the word “potential” often such a powerful performance killer? [26:25]Effective pre-performance routines Michael has seen, and why he discourages the popular deference to superstition so popular among athletes. [27:31]Is the effectiveness of a team dictated simply by a formula of individual multiplied by X number of team members? What ingredients best facilitate a team’s culture toward success? [29:34]Three rules (and one bonus, unwritten rule) that govern the Seattle Seahawks. [30:55]What was it like to lose a Super Bowl? [33:08]What role does mindfulness play in Michael’s world? [36:47]Michael’s advice for someone new to — but curious to explore — mindfulness, and what they can do if it’s just not clicking for them from the get-go. [38:47]To avoid encouraging false confidence leading to overly risky or reckless behavior, how does Michael know when to draw the line? What specific incident really put this sense to the test, and how did he manage it? [43:01]Something Michael believes everyone should do on an everyday basis, and how he puts this into practice. [46:18]What is the first step back from massive failure? [47:29]Would the general advice Michael dispenses differ between high performers and everyday people? [48:57]How much of a role does Stoicism play in Michael’s life? [51:24]What would Michael’s billboard say? [52:28]Parting thoughts. [53:21]*For show notes and past guests, please visit tim.blog/podcast.Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter (“5-Bullet Friday”) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim’s books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss YouTube: youtube.com/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Every Friday, Tim Ferriss sends out five bullet points of the coolest things he has found that week, including apps, books, documentaries, supplements, gadgets, new self experiments, hacks, tricks, and all sorts of weird stuff he digs up from around the world.
00:00 - 05:06 (05:06)
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Tim Ferriss
Summary

Every Friday, Tim Ferriss sends out five bullet points of the coolest things he has found that week, including apps, books, documentaries, supplements, gadgets, new self experiments, hacks, tricks, and all sorts of weird stuff he digs up from around the world. In addition, on his podcast, he deconstructs world class performers of all different types to uncover their specific tactics for overcoming doubt, tackling their hardest decisions and ultimately succeeding on their own terms.

Episode
#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
Flooding is the practice of exposing someone to the stimulus they fear until they no longer respond with fear; on the other hand, systematic desensitization is gradually exposing someone to the same stimulus in manageable doses.
05:06 - 10:46 (05:40)
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Psychology
Summary

Flooding is the practice of exposing someone to the stimulus they fear until they no longer respond with fear; on the other hand, systematic desensitization is gradually exposing someone to the same stimulus in manageable doses.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
The speaker talks about the benefits of nature retreats as a gift, specifically from personal experiences with their parents.
10:46 - 13:28 (02:41)
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Nature Retreats
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The speaker talks about the benefits of nature retreats as a gift, specifically from personal experiences with their parents. The speaker also describes the feeling of being in nature and how it can reduce stress.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
A person recalls how their anxiety was triggered by social events in high school, but also shares an example of how they overcame it while surfing with a friend.
13:28 - 17:38 (04:09)
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Anxiety
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A person recalls how their anxiety was triggered by social events in high school, but also shares an example of how they overcame it while surfing with a friend.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
The human experience is complex and nuanced, and there is a thirst to understand how the mind, body and spirit works.
17:38 - 23:59 (06:21)
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Psychology
Summary

The human experience is complex and nuanced, and there is a thirst to understand how the mind, body and spirit works. Facing your demons and haunting memories have the power to change oneself.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
The word "potential" can have a significant impact on children.
23:59 - 27:05 (03:05)
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Parenting
Summary

The word "potential" can have a significant impact on children. Parents must be thoughtful about how they approach it and use it only when it doesn't cause anxiety.

Episode
#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
Coach Pete Carroll and his team, the Seattle Seahawks, view their organization as relationship-based and prioritize creating a routine or checklist to activate a competitive mindset in their athletes, which is supported by research and science.
27:05 - 31:25 (04:20)
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Seattle Seahawks, performance mindset
Summary

Coach Pete Carroll and his team, the Seattle Seahawks, view their organization as relationship-based and prioritize creating a routine or checklist to activate a competitive mindset in their athletes, which is supported by research and science.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
The Seahawks integrate the philosophy of stoicism into their training and preparation for games, helping them to handle both wins and losses with a level-headed approach.
31:25 - 38:24 (06:58)
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Stoicism
Summary

The Seahawks integrate the philosophy of stoicism into their training and preparation for games, helping them to handle both wins and losses with a level-headed approach.

Episode
#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
The awareness that mindfulness brings can bring clarity and a fresh perspective to life, but it is important to focus that awareness on the right areas, and listening carefully to others is also an essential part of the process.
38:24 - 44:38 (06:14)
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Mindfulness
Summary

The awareness that mindfulness brings can bring clarity and a fresh perspective to life, but it is important to focus that awareness on the right areas, and listening carefully to others is also an essential part of the process.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
Pushing your limits, rather than playing it safe and small, is necessary to achieve growth and avoid feeling the pain of failure, according to the speaker.
44:38 - 49:35 (04:56)
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Overcoming Limitations
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Pushing your limits, rather than playing it safe and small, is necessary to achieve growth and avoid feeling the pain of failure, according to the speaker. Pain is an impetus to become better and serves as a motivator to keep pushing beyond what has already been achieved.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
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The Tim Ferriss Show
The journey of self-discovery should be embraced by individuals, where being in genuine relationships and experiencing rugged and hostile environments would lead to personal growth and development of great thoughts, actions, effort, and attitude.
49:35 - 54:35 (04:59)
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Self-discovery
Summary

The journey of self-discovery should be embraced by individuals, where being in genuine relationships and experiencing rugged and hostile environments would lead to personal growth and development of great thoughts, actions, effort, and attitude.

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#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
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The Tim Ferriss Show
Tim Ferriss shares the coolest things he's found or discovered over the week in his half-page Friday newsletter, which includes articles, books, albums, gadgets, and tech tricks among others.
54:35 - 55:59 (01:23)
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Tim Ferriss
Summary

Tim Ferriss shares the coolest things he's found or discovered over the week in his half-page Friday newsletter, which includes articles, books, albums, gadgets, and tech tricks among others.

Episode
#564: Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show