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Parenting a Child with a Cleft Lip
A study found that there are no bonding issues between parents and children with cleft palates or lips.
27:20 - 36:12 (08:52)
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Parenting
Summary

A study found that there are no bonding issues between parents and children with cleft palates or lips. However, in developing countries, parents may blame each other for their child's condition.

Episode
How Cleft Lips and Palates Work
Podcast
Stuff You Should Know
Suspiciously Staring at Babies
The speaker talks about their tendency to stare suspiciously at babies in public in order to avoid kidnappers, and how this fear emerged around the time when they were concerned about the online security of someone they knew.
2:07:12 - 2:10:08 (02:55)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker talks about their tendency to stare suspiciously at babies in public in order to avoid kidnappers, and how this fear emerged around the time when they were concerned about the online security of someone they knew.

Episode
#340 – Chris Tarbell: FBI Agent Who Took Down Silk Road
Podcast
Lex Fridman Podcast
Emotional Train Ride with a Young Daughter
A parent recounts a recent train ride with their daughter that ended in tears, and reflects on the uncertainty of when they will return.
29:33 - 31:33 (02:00)
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Parenting
Summary

A parent recounts a recent train ride with their daughter that ended in tears, and reflects on the uncertainty of when they will return.

Episode
On the Road With Ukraine’s Refugees: An Update
Podcast
The Daily
Breaking the Cycle of Trauma in Parenting
The speaker reflects on how being conscious of the way his own parents' behavior affected him allowed him to break the cycle and create a healthy and functional relationship with his five children.
01:53 - 10:36 (08:43)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker reflects on how being conscious of the way his own parents' behavior affected him allowed him to break the cycle and create a healthy and functional relationship with his five children.

Episode
E192: Dame Dash: The Man That DISCOVERED & Built Jay-z & Kanye West!
Podcast
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Importance of Monitoring Your Child's Online Activity
The hosts discuss the dangers of leaving children unmonitored while using apps like TikTok, where one keyword search can lead to inappropriate content.
59:12 - 1:04:25 (05:12)
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Parenting
Summary

The hosts discuss the dangers of leaving children unmonitored while using apps like TikTok, where one keyword search can lead to inappropriate content. They stress the importance of parents curating their children's online experiences.

Episode
E47: Facebook's week from hell, Ellen Pao on sexism in Elizabeth Holmes coverage, Newsom's win, frauds & more
Podcast
All-In with Chamath, Jason, Sacks & Friedberg
Observations on Parenting and Personal Growth
The speaker reflects on their experiences of playing chess and card games in loud environments and observes mistakes that parents make by not being open to weather and not being deeply attuned to their children's unobstructed self-expression in their early years.
38:04 - 42:09 (04:04)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker reflects on their experiences of playing chess and card games in loud environments and observes mistakes that parents make by not being open to weather and not being deeply attuned to their children's unobstructed self-expression in their early years.

Episode
#148: Josh Waitzkin, The Prodigy Returns
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
Adopting Kids with Emotional Problems
A couple adopted Jaleek, a 12-year-old with reactive attachment disorder, which means he has a hard time building emotional connections with others.
00:00 - 04:05 (04:05)
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Parenting
Summary

A couple adopted Jaleek, a 12-year-old with reactive attachment disorder, which means he has a hard time building emotional connections with others. The couple understood they were bringing him into their family with all the same rights, expectations, and love as their biological kids.

Episode
MISSING: Jaliek Rainwalker
Podcast
Crime Junkie
Raising Children and Clickbait
The speaker discusses a frustrating experience with clickbait about raising children, which leads to a humorous reflection on the concept of "raising gay children."
10:56 - 13:48 (02:52)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker discusses a frustrating experience with clickbait about raising children, which leads to a humorous reflection on the concept of "raising gay children."

Episode
Ep. 73 | 2 Bears 1 Cave w/ Tom Segura & Bert Kreischer
Podcast
2 Bears, 1 Cave with Tom Segura & Bert Kreischer
Parenting styles and their impact on children
The most effective parenting style allows for both structure and safety, as well as independence and emotional respect for the child.
13:15 - 24:09 (10:54)
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Parenting
Summary

The most effective parenting style allows for both structure and safety, as well as independence and emotional respect for the child. Setting rules is important, but it is equally important to listen to the child and take their perspective into consideration.

Episode
57. The psychology of toxic parents
Podcast
The Psychology of your 20’s
A Podcast Clip About Parenting From The Pocket-Sized Parenting
The speaker shares an anecdote about his mother encouraging him to smoke when he was 12 years old to avoid eating.
32:35 - 41:28 (08:52)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker shares an anecdote about his mother encouraging him to smoke when he was 12 years old to avoid eating. The clip also includes an unrelated advertisement for StoryWorth and mentions the toxicity of bedding products.

Episode
Julia Gets Wise with Ruth Reichl
Podcast
Wiser Than Me with Julia Louis-Dreyfus
The Trade of Parenting
Parenting is a trade-off, but it's worth it.
1:01:33 - 1:09:31 (07:58)
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Parenting
Summary

Parenting is a trade-off, but it's worth it. It may impact productivity like taxes, but the joy and love is immeasurable.

Episode
#315: John Coogan – Why Does The Media Hate Tech?
Podcast
The Danny Miranda Podcast
Father who bonds over shared interests
A man shares stories about his father who shows a genuine interest in each of his kids' hobbies and passions, making it a point to bond with them and participate in activities that they enjoy.
44:11 - 47:27 (03:15)
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Parenting
Summary

A man shares stories about his father who shows a genuine interest in each of his kids' hobbies and passions, making it a point to bond with them and participate in activities that they enjoy.

Episode
Flying First Class, Grant Cardone, and How Sam Enraged Goldman Sachs
Podcast
My First Million
Teaching Adaptive Mindset to Children
This podcast discusses how parents can instill adaptive mindset in children by emphasizing the benefits of healthy foods and stress management techniques.
1:25:45 - 1:35:48 (10:02)
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Parenting
Summary

This podcast discusses how parents can instill adaptive mindset in children by emphasizing the benefits of healthy foods and stress management techniques. It highlights the importance of focusing on mindset rather than getting kids to do certain things.

Episode
Dr. Alia Crum: Science of Mindsets for Health & Performance
Podcast
Huberman Lab
Reflections on Parenting and Decision Making
The speaker reflects on their approach to decision making and parenting, emphasizing the importance of thinking before acting and fostering resilience in their children.
17:42 - 20:53 (03:10)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker reflects on their approach to decision making and parenting, emphasizing the importance of thinking before acting and fostering resilience in their children.

Episode
Moving Forward with my sister Sara
Podcast
A Bit of Optimism
Josh's parenting in question
Josh's parenting is in question as he let his young sons share a home with an accused pedophile.
1:07:25 - 1:13:47 (06:22)
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Parenting
Summary

Josh's parenting is in question as he let his young sons share a home with an accused pedophile.

Episode
Haunted
Podcast
Dateline NBC
The Effects of Parenting and Proxy Fitness Cues on Adolescent Behavior
Moms are better at nurturing in the early years while dads are better at teaching adolescents how to navigate risk.
59:11 - 1:08:00 (08:48)
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Parenting
Summary

Moms are better at nurturing in the early years while dads are better at teaching adolescents how to navigate risk. Providing proxy fitness cues can discourage men from causing trouble, but may also lead to detachment and sedation.

Episode
#537 - Richard Reeves - Does Anyone Care About Men's Struggles?
Podcast
Modern Wisdom
Raising Entrepreneurial Kids
Raising entrepreneurial kids is not just about teaching them how to start a business to earn money, but rather about equipping them with the confidence, perseverance, and tenacity they need to succeed in life.
05:41 - 14:09 (08:28)
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Parenting
Summary

Raising entrepreneurial kids is not just about teaching them how to start a business to earn money, but rather about equipping them with the confidence, perseverance, and tenacity they need to succeed in life.

Episode
5 parenting tips for raising resilient, self-reliant kids | Tameka Montgomery
Podcast
TED Talks Daily
Honoring Your Parents and Receiving Their Unconditional Love and Support
The speaker suggests that it's important to honor your parents because the unconditional love and support they give you is unmatched by anyone.
50:45 - 55:27 (04:42)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker suggests that it's important to honor your parents because the unconditional love and support they give you is unmatched by anyone. Their happiness and pride in your success should be your greatest accomplishment.

Episode
1082 Billionaire Mindset, Leadership & Living A Great Life w/David Rubenstein
Podcast
The School of Greatness
Bad Parenting Techniques Used on Prince Wilhelm
Wilhelm's caretaker taught him to ride a horse by letting him repeatedly fall off, ignoring his tears until he got used to it, which is just one example of bad parenting techniques being used on the Prince.
40:12 - 45:30 (05:18)
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Parenting
Summary

Wilhelm's caretaker taught him to ride a horse by letting him repeatedly fall off, ignoring his tears until he got used to it, which is just one example of bad parenting techniques being used on the Prince.

Episode
Part One: Kaiser Wilhelm: The Saddest Warlord In History
Podcast
Behind the Bastards
Parental Rules for Teenagers
Bill's daughter had to follow a strict 9 p.m. curfew, and provide ticket stubs for fairs or concerts she attended.
00:00 - 01:41 (01:41)
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Parenting
Summary

Bill's daughter had to follow a strict 9 p.m. curfew, and provide ticket stubs for fairs or concerts she attended. The speaker believes sharing more details about the story may become tedious for the audience.

Episode
Cadets Murder High School Student to “Purify Their Love”? The Murder of Adrianne Jones
Podcast
True Crime with Kendall Rae
Walking to School and Fulfillment
A parent talks about the satisfaction of spending time with their children by walking them to school every day, and the importance of job fulfillment.
1:23:13 - 1:26:20 (03:06)
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Parenting
Summary

A parent talks about the satisfaction of spending time with their children by walking them to school every day, and the importance of job fulfillment. They also mention a funny incident where the high school strictly prohibited DoorDash deliveries to school.

Episode
Paul Buchheit, Creator of Gmail
Podcast
The Social Radars
A Mom's Sacrifice for Her Children's Future
A mother sacrifices her wants to save for her children's future, documenting their voices on the way.
15:41 - 18:15 (02:34)
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Parenting
Summary

A mother sacrifices her wants to save for her children's future, documenting their voices on the way.

Episode
15 of 15: Next in the Investigation
Podcast
The Deck Investigates
Differences in Parenting
The speaker reflects on the differences in parenting styles and how sometimes what works for one person may not work for another.
54:11 - 1:00:02 (05:50)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker reflects on the differences in parenting styles and how sometimes what works for one person may not work for another.

Episode
"Paul Thomas Anderson"
Podcast
SmartLess
Advice for Single Dads Communicating with Daughters with Jocko Willink
Jocko Willink shares advice for single dads to communicate with their daughters in today's culture on how to deal with fear, the woke world, and how to keep a solid mindset growing up as a young woman.
08:33 - 13:32 (04:59)
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Parenting
Summary

Jocko Willink shares advice for single dads to communicate with their daughters in today's culture on how to deal with fear, the woke world, and how to keep a solid mindset growing up as a young woman.

Episode
#43 Eddie Penney - SEAL Team 6/DEVGRU Operator
Podcast
Shawn Ryan Show
Joyce’s Daughter Grew Up Too Fast
Joyce's daughter, Renee, seemed eager to begin acting like an adult, running around with older kids, and eventually going off to Mobile, Alabama.
16:23 - 22:29 (06:06)
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Parenting
Summary

Joyce's daughter, Renee, seemed eager to begin acting like an adult, running around with older kids, and eventually going off to Mobile, Alabama. In order to understand Renee's story, Joyce needs to learn about who she was as a child and at what point her life began to veer away from New Orleans.

Episode
Ep.5: Maria
Podcast
Why Can't We Talk About Amanda's Mom?
The Importance of Recognizing Time When Raising a Child
The hosts reflect on their experiences of holding onto time and cherishing it as parents.
29:43 - 33:12 (03:28)
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Parenting
Summary

The hosts reflect on their experiences of holding onto time and cherishing it as parents. They discuss the importance of prioritizing time for yourself and your partner and not just solely focusing on your child.

Episode
Joining the Mile High Club, Breaking the Law & Marital Advice
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Leather Jackets, Diapers, and Fire Hoses
The podcast touches on the challenges of changing diapers for baby boys and the unexpected consequences that follow, as well as a personal story of urinating on a leather jacket.
13:50 - 17:21 (03:31)
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Parenting
Summary

The podcast touches on the challenges of changing diapers for baby boys and the unexpected consequences that follow, as well as a personal story of urinating on a leather jacket.

Episode
Musical Memories
Podcast
Distractible
Parenting the Child You Have
The speaker shares in this episode that parents must understand that their children are unique and they need to parent the child they have, not turn them into a mini version of themselves.
29:24 - 37:06 (07:41)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker shares in this episode that parents must understand that their children are unique and they need to parent the child they have, not turn them into a mini version of themselves. She credits her mother, Marianne Robinson, for teaching her this valuable lesson.

Episode
"Decoding Fear" with Ellen DeGeneres
Podcast
Michelle Obama: The Light Podcast
"Late Night Call: When Parenting Interrupts Sleep"
This episode discusses the experience of being woken up in the middle of the night by a child who is having trouble sleeping and explores the challenges of sleep deprivation for parents.
55:19 - 57:32 (02:12)
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Parenting
Summary

This episode discusses the experience of being woken up in the middle of the night by a child who is having trouble sleeping and explores the challenges of sleep deprivation for parents.

Episode
790: You're It
Podcast
This American Life
Sneaky Kids and Parental Controls
A child found a way around parental controls set by their dad to access other games using the space bar.
00:00 - 02:22 (02:22)
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Parenting
Summary

A child found a way around parental controls set by their dad to access other games using the space bar.

Episode
117: Daniel the Paladin
Podcast
Darknet Diaries
Difficulty Finding Good Kids Movies
The speaker discusses the difficulty in finding good kids movies that both parents and children can enjoy, including the overstimulating effects of shows like Paw Patrol.
33:40 - 37:12 (03:32)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker discusses the difficulty in finding good kids movies that both parents and children can enjoy, including the overstimulating effects of shows like Paw Patrol.

Episode
Ep 397 - The Heart of Straightness
Podcast
Matt and Shane's Secret Podcast
Parents Sharing Tips for Putting Kids to Bed
Two parents share their tips for putting kids to bed without waking them up, including crawling on the floor and army style movements.
33:28 - 41:36 (08:07)
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Parenting
Summary

Two parents share their tips for putting kids to bed without waking them up, including crawling on the floor and army style movements. Billy also talks about the difficulties of balancing sports and bedtime routines.

Episode
Local Hour: Chris Cote's Parenting Guide
Podcast
The Dan Le Batard Show with Stugotz
Common Parenting Patterns That Can Impact Our Lives
This podcast talks about the different parenting patterns that can affect us in different ways.
16:22 - 23:35 (07:12)
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Parenting
Summary

This podcast talks about the different parenting patterns that can affect us in different ways. It touches upon issues like having explosive parents, lack of boundaries, and other factors that can make us feel emotionally or physically unsafe in our environment.

Episode
Why Do I Have Few Memories From Childhood? Deepen Your Healing & Find Answers With Dr. Nicole LePera
Podcast
The Mel Robbins Podcast
Brooklyn Moms and Toddler Tumbling Classes
A mother talks about her experience in a toddler tumbling class and the ethereal Brooklyn moms who were also attending.
37:44 - 40:36 (02:52)
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Parenting
Summary

A mother talks about her experience in a toddler tumbling class and the ethereal Brooklyn moms who were also attending. She also discusses her son's sleeping habits and how one of her kids was a circle sitter while the other one was just like Pete.

Episode
#15 - Rachel Feinstein
Podcast
Stavvy's World
Interview on Baby Sleep Time
A person is being asked about their baby's sleep time and whether they checked on the baby during the night.
11:21 - 14:34 (03:13)
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Parenting
Summary

A person is being asked about their baby's sleep time and whether they checked on the baby during the night.

Episode
8: Babysitter
Podcast
Real Life Real Crime
Ultimatum from Parents
Suzanne's relationship with her parents became strained after she continued seeing her boyfriend Daniel despite their disapproval.
02:58 - 06:41 (03:42)
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Parenting
Summary

Suzanne's relationship with her parents became strained after she continued seeing her boyfriend Daniel despite their disapproval. They eventually gave her an ultimatum to break up with him or lose their financial support.

Episode
Entitled Pretty Teen Kills Parents? Or Nah?
Podcast
Murder, Mystery & Makeup
The Importance of Not Relying on Your Child for Emotional Support
This podcast episode discusses the negative impact on children when parents rely on them for emotional support and validation instead of seeking help from friends, partners, or therapists.
1:01:24 - 1:05:08 (03:44)
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Parenting
Summary

This podcast episode discusses the negative impact on children when parents rely on them for emotional support and validation instead of seeking help from friends, partners, or therapists.

Episode
2 Be Better EP 15.
Podcast
2 Be Better
Evaluating Parental Fitness
The transcript discusses the importance of evaluating parental fitness in custody cases with emphasis on the story of a father, Josh, who was recommended for supervised visitation.
33:50 - 38:46 (04:55)
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Parenting
Summary

The transcript discusses the importance of evaluating parental fitness in custody cases with emphasis on the story of a father, Josh, who was recommended for supervised visitation.

Episode
The Susan Powell Case Files | 4theKidzz | 13
Podcast
Cold
Dressing Up for Your Kid's Birthday
The speaker talks about wanting to give her child a fun birthday and getting criticized for it.
07:43 - 09:38 (01:55)
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Parenting
Summary

The speaker talks about wanting to give her child a fun birthday and getting criticized for it. She also mentions how her dressing up may embarrass her child one day.

Episode
TWO Infinity And Beyond!
Podcast
When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany
A story about a lack of self-awareness in a new dad
A man struggles with understanding his wife's needs after a difficult birth, and relies on his friends for advice instead of recognizing his own shortcomings.
04:46 - 09:56 (05:10)
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Parenting
Summary

A man struggles with understanding his wife's needs after a difficult birth, and relies on his friends for advice instead of recognizing his own shortcomings. This leads him to eventually write a book about his experiences.

Episode
Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
Podcast
If Books Could Kill
Balancing Generosity and Spoiling Your Children
The podcast discusses the fine line between being generous with your children and spoiling them.
24:51 - 30:49 (05:58)
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Parenting
Summary

The podcast discusses the fine line between being generous with your children and spoiling them. The hosts suggest that parents should ask themselves if the gesture in question is emotionally damaging to their child before deciding whether or not to follow through.

Episode
Can I Catch Up on Investing if I Started Late? (Hour 1)
Podcast
The Ramsey Show
The Economist's Guide to Parenting
Freakonomics Radio will revisit their data-driven look at what factors actually contribute to academic success in raising children in next week's episode, "The Economist's Guide to Parenting."
14:49 - 16:26 (01:37)
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Parenting
Summary

Freakonomics Radio will revisit their data-driven look at what factors actually contribute to academic success in raising children in next week's episode, "The Economist's Guide to Parenting."

Episode
138. Whatever Happened to the Carpal Tunnel Epidemic?
Podcast
Freakonomics Radio
Parenting Strategy and Finding Purpose
The hosts believe in a parenting strategy that involves allowing their children to gravitate towards things they care about and driving through life with a strong moral compass.
1:17:55 - 1:20:33 (02:38)
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Parenting
Summary

The hosts believe in a parenting strategy that involves allowing their children to gravitate towards things they care about and driving through life with a strong moral compass. They discuss the importance of finding something to genuinely connect with in life.

Episode
2019 Zion Hype vs. 2003 LeBron Hype, Beyonce vs. Adele, and the Death of Albums With Joe House and Zane Lowe | The Bill Simmons Podcast
Podcast
The Bill Simmons Podcast
Mischievous Bus Boy
A mother reflects on her son's mischievous behavior on the bus and his good nature despite it.
37:38 - 40:01 (02:22)
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Parenting
Summary

A mother reflects on her son's mischievous behavior on the bus and his good nature despite it.

Episode
The Chris Farley Tribute Episode (Part 1)
Podcast
Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
Parenting Styles and Knowing What You Want In Life
In this episode, the hosts discuss parenting styles and the importance of following through on commitments.
10:19 - 28:26 (18:06)
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Parenting
Summary

In this episode, the hosts discuss parenting styles and the importance of following through on commitments. They also touch on the intimidation of knowing what you want in life and the dynamics of a blended family.

Episode
Kate Hudson: The Subtle Art of Not Entertaining Defeat
Podcast
Let's Talk Off Camera with Kelly Ripa
Overcoming Barriers in Parent-Child Relationships
The psychological impact of parental attitudes can create certain barriers for a child, making it difficult to create a bridge between them.
21:08 - 24:58 (03:49)
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Parenting
Summary

The psychological impact of parental attitudes can create certain barriers for a child, making it difficult to create a bridge between them. Discussing the potential for abuse and escaping into fantasy as coping mechanisms.

Episode
Brian Cox
Podcast
HBO's Succession Podcast
Conversation about someone commenting on their baby's potential love life
A mother tells a story about someone commenting on her baby's love life, and her initial reactions to it, which includes getting upset.
00:00 - 04:04 (04:04)
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Parenting
Summary

A mother tells a story about someone commenting on her baby's love life, and her initial reactions to it, which includes getting upset.

Episode
and the Baby Mamas - Brittany Cartwright & Stassi Schroeder
Podcast
Give Them Lala
Making Jokes About Your Kids on Stage
Comedian discusses the experience of telling jokes about his son on stage and the reaction he receives from his son afterwards.
06:18 - 08:51 (02:32)
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Parenting
Summary

Comedian discusses the experience of telling jokes about his son on stage and the reaction he receives from his son afterwards. He also shares that his son now encourages him to continue making jokes about him.

Episode
Jo Koy Gets Emotional
Podcast
Howie Mandel Does Stuff Podcast
Offended by Parenthood Standards
A rant on the pressure of parenthood standards, where even natural animal instincts are denied.
40:22 - 42:44 (02:22)
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Parenting
Summary

A rant on the pressure of parenthood standards, where even natural animal instincts are denied.

Episode
Ep. 4: “Project Partners”
Podcast
Ned's Declassified Podcast Survival Guide
Grudges and Competitive Parenting
A group of friends are involved in competitive parenting where people donate sports tickets or coupons to their businesses.
12:08 - 14:47 (02:38)
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Parenting
Summary

A group of friends are involved in competitive parenting where people donate sports tickets or coupons to their businesses. One member has a grudge against another over small things like leaving dishes on the table.

Episode
S2 Ep3: Squirrel Enthusiast with Tracy Clayton
Podcast
Normal Gossip
The Problem with Over-Celebrating Kids
The host discusses the negative effects of over-celebrating children and creating a culture where every little moment is considered special and sacred, leading to feelings of guilt and unrealistic expectations later on.
13:41 - 16:06 (02:24)
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Parenting
Summary

The host discusses the negative effects of over-celebrating children and creating a culture where every little moment is considered special and sacred, leading to feelings of guilt and unrealistic expectations later on.

Episode
Are Gender Reveals Attempted Murder?
Podcast
I've Had It