Episode
#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
1:23:34
Published: Thu Jan 13 2022
Description
Hamza is a personal development coach and a YouTuber. Many young guys would rather watch porn and play video games than connect with the real world. This creates swathes of lonely, disconnected men and leaves women with fewer and fewer good options in the dating market. Meanwhile, Red Pill YouTube and the Manosphere can be a negative influence which keeps men stuck and demonises women, rather than helping everyone become better, happier, more attractive people. Expect to learn the biggest mistakes Hamza made when improving himself, why Fresh & Fit need to take food out of their mouth, Hamza's thoughts on Britney Spears getting naked on Instagram, how to avoid being Black Pilled with a growth mindset, if Hamza thinks the future of dating will be polygamous, why the manosphere sees women as the enemy, Hamza's reaction to Mikhaila Peterson and Rollo Tomassi's debate and much more... Sponsors: Join the Modern Wisdom Community to connect with me & other listeners - https://modernwisdom.locals.com/ Get 15% discount on Craftd London’s jewellery at https://bit.ly/cdwisdom (use code MW15) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours at https://www.drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Extra Stuff: Subscribe to Hamza on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/Hamza97 Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
Chapters
A prominent YouTuber discusses the impact of Red Pill, Black Pill, Manosphere, Lux Max, and Pick Up Artistry on young men trying to improve their dating lives, leading to a growing population of lonely men and limited options for women in the dating market.
00:00 - 01:59 (01:59)
Summary
A prominent YouTuber discusses the impact of Red Pill, Black Pill, Manosphere, Lux Max, and Pick Up Artistry on young men trying to improve their dating lives, leading to a growing population of lonely men and limited options for women in the dating market.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The podcast discusses the importance of combining healthy practices with aesthetic enhancements, such as custom jewelry, to promote men's overall health and well-being.
01:59 - 06:27 (04:28)
Summary
The podcast discusses the importance of combining healthy practices with aesthetic enhancements, such as custom jewelry, to promote men's overall health and well-being. The discussion also highlights the benefits of proper hydration, reducing appetite and curbing cravings, and developing healthy relationships.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The speaker discusses the issues with the No Fap community and the negative impact it can have on individuals.
06:27 - 10:02 (03:34)
Summary
The speaker discusses the issues with the No Fap community and the negative impact it can have on individuals.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The podcast discusses how to resist temptations by designing effective environments, rather than relying only on willpower, and why hiding the temptation is not always an effective strategy.
10:02 - 14:50 (04:47)
Summary
The podcast discusses how to resist temptations by designing effective environments, rather than relying only on willpower, and why hiding the temptation is not always an effective strategy.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
Self-improvement depression can arise when you start comparing yourself to those who have achieved growth, leading to feelings of vulnerability and dissatisfaction with the past.
14:50 - 17:27 (02:37)
Summary
Self-improvement depression can arise when you start comparing yourself to those who have achieved growth, leading to feelings of vulnerability and dissatisfaction with the past. This phenomenon can lead to harmful thoughts and behavior patterns.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The tall poppy syndrome in British culture is holding young people back with desires for growth and success, as their immediate social circle pulls them down for wanting to do something different.
17:29 - 20:48 (03:18)
Summary
The tall poppy syndrome in British culture is holding young people back with desires for growth and success, as their immediate social circle pulls them down for wanting to do something different. Self-improvement often leads to one person in a group wanting to grow while others stay the same, causing a reflection of the world in full color that reveals more opportunities for success than just staying the same.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this snippet, a person talks about the challenge of taking cold showers and how it helps to not fight the pain.
20:48 - 27:07 (06:19)
Summary
In this snippet, a person talks about the challenge of taking cold showers and how it helps to not fight the pain. They also mention feeling chest stones after doing it.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
The instinctive reaction to criticism online is due to evolutionary traits that spark a fight or flight response in humans.
27:07 - 34:42 (07:35)
Summary
The instinctive reaction to criticism online is due to evolutionary traits that spark a fight or flight response in humans. The sexualization of women on social media and the negative impact it may have on younger generations is also discussed.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The podcast discusses the harmful depiction of women in clickbait content, which seems to be consumed by young men as an addiction to their YouTube consumption.
34:43 - 41:03 (06:19)
Summary
The podcast discusses the harmful depiction of women in clickbait content, which seems to be consumed by young men as an addiction to their YouTube consumption. This contributes to the continued objectification of women in society.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
The host discusses the negative impact of toxic masculinity on men's mental health and the way it can manifest in harmful behaviors and attitudes towards women.
41:03 - 45:42 (04:39)
Summary
The host discusses the negative impact of toxic masculinity on men's mental health and the way it can manifest in harmful behaviors and attitudes towards women.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this podcast episode, the speaker talks about how he previously focused heavily on only the physical aspects of relationships, and how this negatively affected his mindset.
45:42 - 50:58 (05:15)
Summary
In this podcast episode, the speaker talks about how he previously focused heavily on only the physical aspects of relationships, and how this negatively affected his mindset. He discusses how this negative mindset can affect how people approach dating and relationships.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker initially used to be against casual sex but now realizes the impact that it has on fatherlessness due to both men and women engaging in it.
50:58 - 57:33 (06:34)
Summary
The speaker initially used to be against casual sex but now realizes the impact that it has on fatherlessness due to both men and women engaging in it. However, it is still not taken seriously as it is seen as simply a way for guys to get laid.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
A discussion on how top men are becoming increasingly harder to get into and the rise of the feminist narrative that may be pushing for more rights.
57:33 - 1:02:48 (05:15)
Summary
A discussion on how top men are becoming increasingly harder to get into and the rise of the feminist narrative that may be pushing for more rights.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The podcast discusses the impact of Disney promoting traditional relationship ideals in the past and how modern TV shows have shifted dating attitudes, with a focus on characters pursuing casual hookups rather than long-term relationships.
1:02:49 - 1:06:32 (03:43)
Summary
The podcast discusses the impact of Disney promoting traditional relationship ideals in the past and how modern TV shows have shifted dating attitudes, with a focus on characters pursuing casual hookups rather than long-term relationships.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker compares modern dating to fast food, with transient and transactional relationships becoming the norm.
1:06:33 - 1:10:10 (03:37)
Summary
The speaker compares modern dating to fast food, with transient and transactional relationships becoming the norm. She discusses the challenges faced by women trying to succeed in a system that restricts their premarital sex and to compete in a dominance hierarchy with fewer and fewer men being attracted to them.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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The sense of brotherhood and status that some men may miss in real life, they can find in video games.
1:10:10 - 1:16:52 (06:42)
Summary
The sense of brotherhood and status that some men may miss in real life, they can find in video games. This can be particularly appealing to incels or men who follow the black pill philosophy.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
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Structured lifting programs are beneficial even if you're not aiming to make a fortune or you are not good at it, because it becomes a part of your identity and is an overall positive experience.
1:16:53 - 1:22:02 (05:09)
Summary
Structured lifting programs are beneficial even if you're not aiming to make a fortune or you are not good at it, because it becomes a part of your identity and is an overall positive experience.
Episode#421 - Hamza - How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World
PodcastModern Wisdom
The transcript contains multiple ads for products, including free element sticks and discounted men's jewelry.
1:22:02 - 1:23:32 (01:30)
Summary
The transcript contains multiple ads for products, including free element sticks and discounted men's jewelry.