Episode
2 Be Better EP.03
2:52:41
Published: Sun Jan 01 2023
Description
Episode 3 of the podcast. The check in/report card is the first 54 minutes.
Chapters
The Two Bees Podcast anonymously reads emails on their show unless otherwise specified by the sender.
00:00 - 01:15 (01:15)
Summary
The Two Bees Podcast anonymously reads emails on their show unless otherwise specified by the sender. Listeners can submit questions, emails, or constructive criticism via email.
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The podcast will now focus less on answering emails and more on live coaching through Patreon.
01:15 - 04:22 (03:06)
Summary
The podcast will now focus less on answering emails and more on live coaching through Patreon. Check-ins and report cards will be reviewed to streamline the coaching process.
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The speaker stresses the importance of regular relationship check-ins, explaining that it is about bettering relationships, not just saving marriages.
04:22 - 11:10 (06:48)
Summary
The speaker stresses the importance of regular relationship check-ins, explaining that it is about bettering relationships, not just saving marriages. These conversations are honest and intimate and help with personal growth.
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Regulating emotions in intense conversations can be achieved by taking time to process information before continuing the discussion, as this helps individuals recognize and manage their reactions.
11:10 - 14:59 (03:49)
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Regulating emotions in intense conversations can be achieved by taking time to process information before continuing the discussion, as this helps individuals recognize and manage their reactions.
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Engaging in constructive dialogue online is important for personal growth and development, but it can be difficult due to internet trolls and negativity.
14:59 - 19:42 (04:42)
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Engaging in constructive dialogue online is important for personal growth and development, but it can be difficult due to internet trolls and negativity. It is important to focus on having meaningful conversations and not getting caught up in arguments.
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The speaker discusses the importance of knowing your blood levels and how it can impact your relationships and overall health.
19:42 - 22:48 (03:06)
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The speaker discusses the importance of knowing your blood levels and how it can impact your relationships and overall health.
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In a check-in, validating someone's emotion is key.
22:48 - 26:24 (03:36)
Summary
In a check-in, validating someone's emotion is key. If the emotion is legitimate, it is important to empathize with the other person, even if you cannot relate, and to understand the reasoning behind their emotion.
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The way you read a text can change the meaning completely, even if the words are the same.
26:24 - 29:16 (02:51)
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The way you read a text can change the meaning completely, even if the words are the same. Inflection is important in texting just as it is in speech.
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The podcast host shares his natural animosity towards humanity and how it reflects in his opinions towards people.
29:16 - 32:48 (03:31)
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The podcast host shares his natural animosity towards humanity and how it reflects in his opinions towards people.
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A discussion on the different phases of marriage and the importance of recognizing when certain phases are not working for you.
32:48 - 36:34 (03:45)
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A discussion on the different phases of marriage and the importance of recognizing when certain phases are not working for you.
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Surprising your partner with dates can earn you extra brownie points and enhance your relationship by creating new experiences and memories together.
36:34 - 38:23 (01:49)
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Surprising your partner with dates can earn you extra brownie points and enhance your relationship by creating new experiences and memories together. It's a simple way of showing love and appreciation.
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The speaker shares how they enjoy dressing up for dates and how it's not hard for women to put on makeup and look attractive for their partners.
38:23 - 43:03 (04:39)
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The speaker shares how they enjoy dressing up for dates and how it's not hard for women to put on makeup and look attractive for their partners.
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It’s important to acknowledge the daily little things your partner does for you and to continue being flirty and cute with each other such as looking at them and making small gestures every day.
43:03 - 46:48 (03:45)
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It’s important to acknowledge the daily little things your partner does for you and to continue being flirty and cute with each other such as looking at them and making small gestures every day.
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Men are often afraid to express themselves and their emotions for fear of hurting their partner or letting them down.
46:48 - 53:23 (06:34)
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Men are often afraid to express themselves and their emotions for fear of hurting their partner or letting them down. However, this fear can kill communication in a relationship, leading to unhappiness and dissatisfaction.
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The speaker shares their personal experience of feeling angry and seeing red due to chronic pain and surgery, which has affected their relationship with their partner.
53:23 - 55:39 (02:16)
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The speaker shares their personal experience of feeling angry and seeing red due to chronic pain and surgery, which has affected their relationship with their partner.
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Hormones can have a range of effects, including depression, lack of sleep, and difficulty maintaining an erection.
55:39 - 59:35 (03:56)
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Hormones can have a range of effects, including depression, lack of sleep, and difficulty maintaining an erection. Relationships can also have a long-lasting impact on individuals, regardless of how they end.
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A woman is upset with her co-parenting partner as he lied to her about what his ex said.
59:35 - 1:04:25 (04:49)
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A woman is upset with her co-parenting partner as he lied to her about what his ex said. She seeks unbiased advice on the matter.
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The episode delves into the complexities of love and relationships, discussing the different needs that each individual looks to fulfill in every connection they make with others.
1:04:26 - 1:11:21 (06:54)
Summary
The episode delves into the complexities of love and relationships, discussing the different needs that each individual looks to fulfill in every connection they make with others. It also touches on cheating and the misconceptions associated with it when it comes to losing a loved one.
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In this podcast, the host provides advice to a caller about how to deal with trust issues in a relationship.
1:11:21 - 1:14:33 (03:12)
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In this podcast, the host provides advice to a caller about how to deal with trust issues in a relationship.
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The podcast discusses the importance of hormone replacement therapy and the expertise of professionals in the field when it comes to understanding hormones.
1:14:33 - 1:20:45 (06:11)
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The podcast discusses the importance of hormone replacement therapy and the expertise of professionals in the field when it comes to understanding hormones. The speaker also shares personal insights on the topic, including the significance of knowing about hormones for relationships.
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding hormonal changes when dealing with emotional reactions in a relationship, particularly with borderline personality disorder.
1:20:47 - 1:29:03 (08:15)
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding hormonal changes when dealing with emotional reactions in a relationship, particularly with borderline personality disorder. Effective communication and support can help build a foundation for a lasting relationship.
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The transcript mentions the impact of external sources on relationships, the lack of education about hormones in schools, and the difficulty of men in understanding women's hormones.
1:29:03 - 1:33:58 (04:55)
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The transcript mentions the impact of external sources on relationships, the lack of education about hormones in schools, and the difficulty of men in understanding women's hormones. Also mentioned is the possibility of turning off Life360 app and the impact of breakups on it.
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The speaker advises the listener to take time to process their emotions and hormones if they suspect infidelity in their relationship.
1:33:58 - 1:41:16 (07:17)
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The speaker advises the listener to take time to process their emotions and hormones if they suspect infidelity in their relationship. They also suggest that without open communication, it may be difficult to rebuild the relationship and resolve any underlying issues.
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The speaker discusses their struggle with traditional gender roles in their marriage, as they are having a hard time adjusting to their husband doing the traditional "husband" tasks, like taking care of their vehicle and taking out the garbage.
1:41:16 - 1:44:10 (02:54)
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The speaker discusses their struggle with traditional gender roles in their marriage, as they are having a hard time adjusting to their husband doing the traditional "husband" tasks, like taking care of their vehicle and taking out the garbage.
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The speaker shares their opinion that in situations where a step-parent is involved, the partner's needs should come first before the child's needs to maintain a healthy relationship.
1:44:10 - 1:47:20 (03:09)
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The speaker shares their opinion that in situations where a step-parent is involved, the partner's needs should come first before the child's needs to maintain a healthy relationship. They also mention their personal experience with co-parenting their child.
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Choosing your ex's emotions over your current partner's can create a subconscious belief that your ex is more important, leading to a shift in the relationship dynamic and potential issues down the line.
1:47:20 - 1:52:36 (05:16)
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Choosing your ex's emotions over your current partner's can create a subconscious belief that your ex is more important, leading to a shift in the relationship dynamic and potential issues down the line. It is important to prioritize your current partner and their feelings in order to maintain a healthy and balanced relationship.
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In this podcast, the speaker discusses the challenges and logistics of co-parenting from a long distance.
1:52:38 - 1:58:49 (06:11)
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In this podcast, the speaker discusses the challenges and logistics of co-parenting from a long distance. She shares her own personal experience and some tips on how to cope with the arrangements.
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A clear expectation of each person's job in a relationship needs to be established and adhered to, to ensure that everyone knows what they're supposed to be doing.
1:58:49 - 2:01:43 (02:53)
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A clear expectation of each person's job in a relationship needs to be established and adhered to, to ensure that everyone knows what they're supposed to be doing. Failure to do so can create problems in the relationship, such as one partner having to take on additional responsibilities.
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's physical and mental health, both for personal well-being and for the sake of the people who depend on us.
2:01:43 - 2:05:00 (03:17)
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's physical and mental health, both for personal well-being and for the sake of the people who depend on us.
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This podcast episode discusses presenting situations with work and finances to a neutral third party to gain unbiased perspectives and opinions.
2:05:00 - 2:09:10 (04:10)
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This podcast episode discusses presenting situations with work and finances to a neutral third party to gain unbiased perspectives and opinions. It also talks about taking accountability for any problems and working towards a positive outcome.
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The speaker discusses the inappropriate language and behavior that can occur in the workplace and the need for a transition phase from work to home.
2:09:10 - 2:14:03 (04:52)
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The speaker discusses the inappropriate language and behavior that can occur in the workplace and the need for a transition phase from work to home. They also touch on the complexities of relationships and the importance of understanding past actions and changes to a person's character.
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The reason men don't leave bad relationships is because they've given their word, they've made their vows and they're expected to try to make it work.
2:14:03 - 2:17:26 (03:22)
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The reason men don't leave bad relationships is because they've given their word, they've made their vows and they're expected to try to make it work. This is why the majority of divorces, which are initiated by women, are a result of men's long-term endurance in bad relationships.
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Communication is key in relationships, but it's important to use non-combative language to express your feelings and avoid assuming what the other person is thinking or feeling.
2:17:26 - 2:23:42 (06:16)
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Communication is key in relationships, but it's important to use non-combative language to express your feelings and avoid assuming what the other person is thinking or feeling.
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A man expresses his desire to meet his partner's needs and discusses the importance of understanding why they do certain things, such as wearing makeup, to feel better about themselves.
2:23:42 - 2:29:03 (05:20)
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A man expresses his desire to meet his partner's needs and discusses the importance of understanding why they do certain things, such as wearing makeup, to feel better about themselves.
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The importance of creating a safe and non-judgmental space in a relationship to allow for open and honest communication, and avoiding the need to constantly defend oneself during conversations.
2:29:03 - 2:32:49 (03:46)
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The importance of creating a safe and non-judgmental space in a relationship to allow for open and honest communication, and avoiding the need to constantly defend oneself during conversations.
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The stress of being a provider can lead to fight-or-flight responses and contribute to conflicts and invalidation within a relationship.
2:32:49 - 2:37:17 (04:28)
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The stress of being a provider can lead to fight-or-flight responses and contribute to conflicts and invalidation within a relationship. Open communication and striving for personal excellence can help address these issues.
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The financial burden of being a single parent can cause stress and anxiety, and negative news stories can exacerbate these feelings.
2:37:17 - 2:40:05 (02:47)
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The financial burden of being a single parent can cause stress and anxiety, and negative news stories can exacerbate these feelings.
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The speaker suggests a clear defined expectation contract for household chores, respecting one's partner, and communication strategies in a relationship.
2:40:06 - 2:45:11 (05:04)
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The speaker suggests a clear defined expectation contract for household chores, respecting one's partner, and communication strategies in a relationship.
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The speaker discusses the sacrifices and challenges of being a stay-at-home spouse, including the pressure to maintain a clean home and the lack of job stability, but ultimately finds a sense of self-worth in the role.
2:45:11 - 2:48:07 (02:55)
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The speaker discusses the sacrifices and challenges of being a stay-at-home spouse, including the pressure to maintain a clean home and the lack of job stability, but ultimately finds a sense of self-worth in the role.
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The hosts discuss the crucial role of validation in relationships, acknowledging when they themselves have struggled with invalidation and how it can lead to damaging arguments and hurt feelings.
2:48:07 - 2:51:35 (03:28)
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The hosts discuss the crucial role of validation in relationships, acknowledging when they themselves have struggled with invalidation and how it can lead to damaging arguments and hurt feelings.
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The hosts ask the listeners to share their podcast with others and reflect on why certain topics may trigger them as a step towards personal growth.
2:51:35 - 2:52:40 (01:04)
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The hosts ask the listeners to share their podcast with others and reflect on why certain topics may trigger them as a step towards personal growth.