The psychoanalyst Gene Arendale’s concept of the fortress of I explains how people present a shiny and perfect persona to the world, while audience capture happens when content creators cater their content to their audience’s preferences without working on their inner selves.
Corey Allen talks about why people often choose to not do things they know they should do to impress people they don't even like.
In this podcast, Lisa Feldman Barrett talks about her book ‘How Emotions are Made’ and the concept of the constructed theory of emotion. She challenges the traditional view and expands on this theory.
The more someone has achieved, the more attractive they become in the eyes of other people.
The speaker discusses how negative behavior can become infectious after receiving criticism, despite initially reacting with defensiveness.
In this episode, the speaker explains the nature of fun memories, and how we tend to use the word "fun" to describe anything we do in our leisure time even if it's not enjoyable at all.
This podcast explores the psychological theories behind the idea of manifestation, self-fulfilling prophecies, external vs. internal locus of control, and the Pygmalion theory to explain the trending concept of Lucky Girl Syndrome. It delves into the debate around the lack of scientific research in this area and how the idea of being lucky may have some evidence behind it.
This podcast discusses the disturbing details of serial killers and their psychological profiles, including questions about how they became killers, who they target, and why.
The speaker discusses how memories can be unreliable and subject to distortion over time.
Contrary to popular belief, dominance is not the only path to alpha status. Other traits that contribute to group success and effective leadership can also lead to alpha status.
The default gifts people give tend to be influenced by their upbringing and societal norms, leading to predictable choices such as Omaha Steaks as a default "man's gift."
This episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, whether it's in swimming or in daily life. It also discusses how Daniel Kahneman transformed the field of economics by introducing the idea that humans operate on heuristics rather than just NPV calculations.
A discussion about the psychology behind confessions and how evidence plays a crucial role in determining a suspect's guilt or innocence.
The speaker discusses the tendency of rich individuals, like Paul Manafort, to brag about their busyness as a way of gaining acceptance. This behavior might be linked to their need for validation due to their societal status or background.
This episode discusses the concept of control and its relationship with well-being and anxiety, as well as the importance of perception in providing a sense of agency. The hosts also touch on the topic of safety instructions before flights.
A 2008 study showed that the majority of children feared or disliked clowns, leading to the DSM including it as a childhood fear of costumed characters. It's recommended to keep clowns and children separate.
The human mind has a psychological immune system that needs to be taken care of, just like the physical immune system, in order to avoid negative consequences.
This podcast explores the evolved mating psychology and how modern pornography exploits men's desire for sexual variety, triggering sexual jealousy in relationships, but also provides access to a wider variety of sex partners. Women also have a desire for sexual variety.
The struggle of a defendant to clear their name in front of a jury and the impact of public opinion, proven by studies and expert opinions from psychologists, on their chances of succeeding is discussed in detail on this podcast.
A discussion about the anxiety that comes with realizing you have similar flaws and traits to your parents.
The speaker explains how the brain is hardwired to react to insults and shares a technique to mitigate their effects, reminding oneself that the insulter is thinking of them and viewing them at a distance.
The podcast host discusses how losing to the eventual champion in sports can be a silver lining and how playing in California's ideal weather is preferred.
The human mind tends to remember negative experiences more strongly than positive ones due to a shift in attention as we age. Even though very young infants initially pay greater attention to positive facial expressions and tone of voice, this changes as they near the age of 1.
The chemical structure in our body changes when we experience nervousness or excitement, causing the famous "butterflies in the stomach" feeling. Understanding this process can help people use "confidence anchors" to alleviate anxiety and boost confidence in stressful situations.
Historians and Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman argue that resistance to killing is strongest at close range, and the idea of bayonet fighting is largely a myth. Soldiers like the British Gurkhas, who are comfortable with hand-to-hand combat, are considered more intimidating in battle than others.
The modulation of psychological and psychiatric disorders and conditions can be addressed through various practices such as breath, meditation, diet, and sleep rather than solely relying on medication. While traditional SSRIs work for some, there are multiple medications that can metabolically work differently and provide alternatives for those who thought medication would never be effective.
The podcast discusses the unsettling nature of the mind of a serial killer and the allure of trying to understand the behavior of such individuals.
The podcast host shares their in-depth thoughts and analysis on the movie "Phantom Thread," highlighting the thoroughly investigated psychological layers of the male-female dynamic depicted in the film.
The desire for validation is a natural human instinct, but social media has amplified this need and made it easier to seek approval from others. This can lead to a cycle of seeking external validation and feeling insecure without it.
The withholding of love can drive people to pursue power as a means of feeling safe, and for those who don't thrive in reactivity, it can be difficult to understand. The characterization of Shiv in this season of Succession explores the complex intersection of a woman's power and disempowerment in the face of scandal.
The podcast explores various forms of gossip and why we engage in it, including positive gossip, and how our perception of gossip can be influenced by our reputation.
In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the difficulty in differentiating between cult members who willingly join versus those who do not. Using Heaven's Gate as an example, they question the reasons why people would stay and the tragedy that often occurs within these groups.
In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the risk of inflating someone's ego and how it can lead to dangerous consequences.
Podcast hosts discuss what motivates people to choose honesty over fraud, even in situations where they could easily run away with large amounts of money. Slow eye contact is noted as a sign of mutual understanding during the conversation.
