Episode
E215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
Description
Do you control your emotions or do your emotions control you? Has the irrational parts of your consciousness ever hijacked your logical mind? Have you ever wanted to understand how to overcome these thoughts in order to become the person you always wanted to be? This is exactly what Professor Steve Peters has helped people from all areas of life to achieve. He has worked with everyone from psychiatric patients to elite athletes. His classic book, ‘The Chimp Paradox’, has helped to change thousands of lives. In this enlightening conversations Professor Peters uncovers the ways that our mind is often at odds with itself, the psychological tricks used by Olympians to achieve gold, and the toll it takes upon the psychologists helping their patients through their trauma. Topics: Your professional Bio and experiences What are you doing for these athletes? Figuring out what your beliefs are How do I manage my emotions? Why do we find it hard to apologies Why acceptance is so important What role does trauma play in our reactions Dealing with low self esteem Where would you start with dealing with low self esteem Do we choose what we believe? How do you deal with your emotions? Exercising your chimp How we form habits Realtionships Your book The last guest question Steve: Instagram - bit.ly/3D5YBBA Website - bit.ly/3iZtr84 Steve’s book: bit.ly/3wm10Ec Watch the episodes on Youtube: https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb Follow: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3CXkF0d Twitter: https://bit.ly/3wBA6bA Linkedin: https://bit.ly/3z3CSYM Telegram: https://g2ul0.app.link/SBExclusiveCommun Sponsors: Intel - https://bit.ly/3FxWMO2 Huel - https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Craftd - https://g2ul0.app.link/gZ8in6Dsvsb
Chapters
Professor Steve Peters, a world-leading psychiatrist, shares his techniques for dealing with traumatic experiences that shape our beliefs and how putting them in a box can help overcome them.
00:00 - 00:40 (00:40)
Summary
Professor Steve Peters, a world-leading psychiatrist, shares his techniques for dealing with traumatic experiences that shape our beliefs and how putting them in a box can help overcome them. Peters has helped many British athletes, including Chris Hoy and Ronnie Osorio, to manage their emotions and achieve their athletic goals.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The speaker discusses their medical background in general practice and psychiatry, as well as their specialization in sports medicine through an MSc program.
00:40 - 05:36 (04:56)
Summary
The speaker discusses their medical background in general practice and psychiatry, as well as their specialization in sports medicine through an MSc program.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
In this podcast episode, the speaker talks about his approach towards personal growth and development, emphasizing on understanding oneself, perceiving the world and others, and choosing one's desired path in life.
05:36 - 10:56 (05:19)
Summary
In this podcast episode, the speaker talks about his approach towards personal growth and development, emphasizing on understanding oneself, perceiving the world and others, and choosing one's desired path in life.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
A discussion about how the human vs chimp vs computer system work in sports, and how the computer system's automatic thinking can lead to success in high-speed sports.
10:56 - 16:00 (05:03)
Summary
A discussion about how the human vs chimp vs computer system work in sports, and how the computer system's automatic thinking can lead to success in high-speed sports.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Beliefs can play a huge role in our behavior and reactions, causing us to shut down when faced with unpleasant emotions.
16:00 - 19:07 (03:07)
Summary
Beliefs can play a huge role in our behavior and reactions, causing us to shut down when faced with unpleasant emotions. However, consciously programming positive beliefs can help us open up and approach situations with confidence.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The speaker explains the differences between the human and chimp systems and how to recognize and manage the chimp system to improve decision-making.
19:07 - 22:03 (02:55)
Summary
The speaker explains the differences between the human and chimp systems and how to recognize and manage the chimp system to improve decision-making.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The podcast discusses how someone can unlearn the belief that shouting is an effective way to communicate and the potential negative consequences of shouting on others.
22:03 - 25:08 (03:04)
Summary
The podcast discusses how someone can unlearn the belief that shouting is an effective way to communicate and the potential negative consequences of shouting on others.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The speaker suggests that instead of beating ourselves up for our negative thoughts and behaviors, we should forgive ourselves and recognize that it is a natural part of our brain's chimp system.
25:08 - 29:37 (04:29)
Summary
The speaker suggests that instead of beating ourselves up for our negative thoughts and behaviors, we should forgive ourselves and recognize that it is a natural part of our brain's chimp system.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The chimp system is a way of looking at how chimpanzees and humans think differently.
29:37 - 34:40 (05:02)
Summary
The chimp system is a way of looking at how chimpanzees and humans think differently. While chimpanzees operate primarily under the chimp system, humans have a more complex thought process, which can sometimes prevent them from behaving in line with their values.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
This podcast episode delves into the science and research behind low self-esteem, providing insight into how and why individuals develop negative self-talk and strategies for overcoming it.
34:40 - 40:01 (05:21)
Summary
This podcast episode delves into the science and research behind low self-esteem, providing insight into how and why individuals develop negative self-talk and strategies for overcoming it.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Instead of putting pressure on oneself to get rid of traumas completely, it is better to learn how to deal with them constructively, without expecting them to disappear completely, according to the host of the "Impact Theory" podcast.
40:01 - 44:39 (04:38)
Summary
Instead of putting pressure on oneself to get rid of traumas completely, it is better to learn how to deal with them constructively, without expecting them to disappear completely, according to the host of the "Impact Theory" podcast.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses how low self-esteem and the urge to constantly seek evidence of not being good enough can be overcome by focusing on gaining reasonable self-esteem through a deeper understanding of brain functioning and adopting certain habits that lead to personal growth.
44:39 - 50:30 (05:51)
Summary
In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses how low self-esteem and the urge to constantly seek evidence of not being good enough can be overcome by focusing on gaining reasonable self-esteem through a deeper understanding of brain functioning and adopting certain habits that lead to personal growth.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Research shows that around the age of adolescence, about one in four people genetically become leaders by setting their own agendas and having the confidence to be individualistic.
50:30 - 55:48 (05:17)
Summary
Research shows that around the age of adolescence, about one in four people genetically become leaders by setting their own agendas and having the confidence to be individualistic. This confidence in one's own style can be contagious and attractive to others, leading to a positive social influence.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Low self-esteem can be a driving force for some individuals, but it's essential to gain perspective and understand that success and material possessions do not define a person's worth.
55:48 - 1:01:47 (05:59)
Summary
Low self-esteem can be a driving force for some individuals, but it's essential to gain perspective and understand that success and material possessions do not define a person's worth. Building self-esteem and addressing underlying issues can help individuals cultivate a more positive self-image.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The pursuit of money and material success can cause individuals to sacrifice relationships and social connection, leading to an overall feeling of emptiness, as attaining these goals can often provide evidence that they were not worth striving for.
1:01:47 - 1:08:16 (06:28)
Summary
The pursuit of money and material success can cause individuals to sacrifice relationships and social connection, leading to an overall feeling of emptiness, as attaining these goals can often provide evidence that they were not worth striving for. It's important to find fulfillment outside of these external sources of validation.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The podcast addresses how to overcome low self-esteem, which can be caused by a variety of factors such as age, diet, and past experiences, and how to build a more positive self-image.
1:08:16 - 1:12:01 (03:45)
Summary
The podcast addresses how to overcome low self-esteem, which can be caused by a variety of factors such as age, diet, and past experiences, and how to build a more positive self-image.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The starting point for building yourself up is identifying who you truly are and unpicking what is not you.
1:12:01 - 1:18:06 (06:04)
Summary
The starting point for building yourself up is identifying who you truly are and unpicking what is not you. Define who you want to be with a blank piece of paper and focus on the person you want to become.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The speaker emphasizes the importance of embracing one's true self and coping strategies to change undesirable behaviors, but also acknowledges the innate nature of individuals.
1:18:06 - 1:23:21 (05:15)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes the importance of embracing one's true self and coping strategies to change undesirable behaviors, but also acknowledges the innate nature of individuals.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
A doctor shares the importance of not going down one route and looking outside yourself, even if it takes a toolbox to do so.
1:23:21 - 1:27:20 (03:58)
Summary
A doctor shares the importance of not going down one route and looking outside yourself, even if it takes a toolbox to do so. He emphasized that living out your core values, like helping animals, can give you a sense of worthiness and peace of mind.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The host discusses the importance of defining and living by your values in order to become a wholesome person, and emphasizes the need to address emotional scars and pain.
1:27:20 - 1:31:52 (04:31)
Summary
The host discusses the importance of defining and living by your values in order to become a wholesome person, and emphasizes the need to address emotional scars and pain.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Speaking from our emotional "chimp" can help us disarm our negative emotions, according to a speaker in a team meeting.
1:31:52 - 1:38:28 (06:36)
Summary
Speaking from our emotional "chimp" can help us disarm our negative emotions, according to a speaker in a team meeting. This can help us process our feelings and improve our mental well-being.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The importance of embracing one's authentic self-image and its impact on performance is discussed.
1:38:28 - 1:41:07 (02:39)
Summary
The importance of embracing one's authentic self-image and its impact on performance is discussed.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The host discusses breaking habits with the help of rewards, inspired by a musician friend, and references a quote about change occurring when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of making a change.
1:41:07 - 1:44:15 (03:08)
Summary
The host discusses breaking habits with the help of rewards, inspired by a musician friend, and references a quote about change occurring when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of making a change.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The speaker shares how the key to resolving relationship issues, including irrational thoughts of a breakup, is through quality time spent with their partner.
1:44:15 - 1:47:00 (02:44)
Summary
The speaker shares how the key to resolving relationship issues, including irrational thoughts of a breakup, is through quality time spent with their partner. Apologizing and showing love helps to overcome challenges and deepen the relationship.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
This podcast discusses the methods to shift our emotions and the characteristics required to do so, such as psychological mindedness and recognizing that change does not always require others to change.
1:47:03 - 1:50:00 (02:56)
Summary
This podcast discusses the methods to shift our emotions and the characteristics required to do so, such as psychological mindedness and recognizing that change does not always require others to change.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Formulating intentions as a binary yes or no question can help people avoid cognitive dissonance and achieve their goals, as it minimizes the room for excuses.
1:50:00 - 1:53:49 (03:49)
Summary
Formulating intentions as a binary yes or no question can help people avoid cognitive dissonance and achieve their goals, as it minimizes the room for excuses. Studies have shown that people are more likely to follow through with their intentions when answering in a binary yes or no format compared to open-ended or multiple-choice formats.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
In order to have a successful relationship with someone else, it is crucial to first establish a healthy relationship with oneself, without which one can become dependent or controlling in the relationship.
1:53:49 - 1:59:52 (06:02)
Summary
In order to have a successful relationship with someone else, it is crucial to first establish a healthy relationship with oneself, without which one can become dependent or controlling in the relationship.
EpisodeE215: The Mindset Doctor: The Secret Man Behind The World's Top Performers: Steve Peters
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The interviewee discusses how his business partner struggled with being a functional alcoholic and how the interviewee has found the book, Neuroscience for Dummies, by Dr. Frank Amthor, to be a practical and accessible resource to learn about complex scientific topics.
1:59:52 - 2:04:17 (04:25)
Summary
The interviewee discusses how his business partner struggled with being a functional alcoholic and how the interviewee has found the book, Neuroscience for Dummies, by Dr. Frank Amthor, to be a practical and accessible resource to learn about complex scientific topics.