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Relationship

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The willingness to be open to the possibility of not being married and letting go of what's not working in a relationship takes courage, and it's important to relax the nervous system before trying to make important decisions about it.
1:10:06 - 1:15:52 (05:46)
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Relationship
Summary

The willingness to be open to the possibility of not being married and letting go of what's not working in a relationship takes courage, and it's important to relax the nervous system before trying to make important decisions about it. The key is to trust that the right form of the relationship will reveal itself.

Episode
#536: Diana Chapman — How to Get Unstuck, Do “The Work,” Take Radical Responsibility, and Reduce Drama in Your Life
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
The speaker talks about the importance of quality time in a relationship, mentioning that it's crucial to feel that the other person is present with you when spending time together, and that scheduling trips or activities can be a good way to strengthen the bond.
4:15:48 - 4:20:21 (04:33)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker talks about the importance of quality time in a relationship, mentioning that it's crucial to feel that the other person is present with you when spending time together, and that scheduling trips or activities can be a good way to strengthen the bond.

Episode
#337 – Destiny: Politics, Free Speech, Controversy, Sex, War, and Relationships
Podcast
Lex Fridman Podcast
The speaker expresses their thoughts on a woman's readiness for a serious relationship and shares a conversation between Marshall and Jackie regarding their dynamic.
43:46 - 48:51 (05:05)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker expresses their thoughts on a woman's readiness for a serious relationship and shares a conversation between Marshall and Jackie regarding their dynamic.

Episode
Love is Blind Recap: Eps. 6-8 - Back in Seattle
Podcast
Out of the Pods
The speaker tells the story of a woman who discovers during a date with her childhood crush that he is planning to move out because his parents are getting divorced.
26:18 - 30:19 (04:00)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker tells the story of a woman who discovers during a date with her childhood crush that he is planning to move out because his parents are getting divorced. She confronts him with memories of his mother's death that appear to contradict his words, ultimately leaving the house in frustration.

Episode
S1 Ep2: Dickmatized with Sam Sanders
Podcast
Normal Gossip
A man recounts how his relationship with his girlfriend got serious, leading up to the point where they were intimate, but after she found out he had spent time with her friend, things seemed to change.
09:18 - 15:00 (05:42)
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Relationship
Summary

A man recounts how his relationship with his girlfriend got serious, leading up to the point where they were intimate, but after she found out he had spent time with her friend, things seemed to change.

Episode
132: What if you were kept from the one you loved most?
Podcast
This Is Actually Happening
The speaker shares that she never thought she would have a boyfriend until five, six, or seven years later because she is career-focused.
45:57 - 48:28 (02:30)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker shares that she never thought she would have a boyfriend until five, six, or seven years later because she is career-focused. She loves her boyfriend but does not want him to pull her out of her goals and distract her from her priorities.

Episode
A Very Serious Toast with Remi Bader: Thursday, April 13th, 2023
Podcast
The Toast
The speaker shares a story about going on a movie date that was misunderstood by her father, who believed the guy she was with wanted to have sex with her.
29:27 - 32:31 (03:03)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker shares a story about going on a movie date that was misunderstood by her father, who believed the guy she was with wanted to have sex with her.

Episode
Bert Kreischer
Podcast
Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
The easiest habit to make your relationship better is to learn how to validate instead of invalidate your partner.
26:03 - 29:57 (03:53)
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Relationship
Summary

The easiest habit to make your relationship better is to learn how to validate instead of invalidate your partner. This involves avoiding the three ways to invalidate someone, including disagreeing with them based on intellectual grounds, telling them they are wrong to feel the way they do, and ignoring their feelings.

Episode
#466 - Matthew Fray - How To Avoid Destroying Your Relationship
Podcast
Modern Wisdom
The speaker talks about ignoring red flags in a relationship and how it can lead to harmful situations.
44:34 - 47:39 (03:04)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker talks about ignoring red flags in a relationship and how it can lead to harmful situations. She shares a personal experience where her partner bit her face multiple times, causing swelling and infection.

Episode
Tana Mongeau Makes How Much a Month On OnlyFans?!
Podcast
Howie Mandel Does Stuff Podcast
The importance of setting boundaries and discussing any personal baggage before entering a romantic relationship.
1:34:56 - 1:37:57 (03:01)
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Relationship
Summary

The importance of setting boundaries and discussing any personal baggage before entering a romantic relationship. It is vital to have similar core values and do the work together to build a successful partnership.

Episode
2 Be Better Podcast EP.16
Podcast
2 Be Better
The inquiry delves into the life of Jeanette, who had an interesting relationship with Arthur, the victim.
22:38 - 29:33 (06:55)
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Relationship
Summary

The inquiry delves into the life of Jeanette, who had an interesting relationship with Arthur, the victim. They exchanged gifts and letters while Jeanette was overseas, indicating that Arthur may have wanted more from her, but their connection wasn't entirely romantic.

Episode
MURDERED: Harvey and Jeannette Crewe
Podcast
Crime Junkie
The speaker discusses a feeling of settling in a relationship, accepting mediocrity as they struggle to balance their relationship with having two kids.
09:30 - 11:58 (02:27)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker discusses a feeling of settling in a relationship, accepting mediocrity as they struggle to balance their relationship with having two kids.

Episode
5 Questions that Will Change Your Life
Podcast
My First Million
The speaker discusses the challenges of dating someone with a crazy schedule, including watching them travel to other continents on a short notice, while dealing with personal downtime at home.
29:25 - 35:11 (05:46)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker discusses the challenges of dating someone with a crazy schedule, including watching them travel to other continents on a short notice, while dealing with personal downtime at home.

Episode
793 Mark Manson: What People Don't Tell You about Success
Podcast
The School of Greatness
The podcast discusses the stereotype of straight men's desires to see their girlfriends hooking up with other women, thinking only in terms of their own pleasure and ownership over their partner.
1:40:45 - 1:44:33 (03:48)
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Relationship
Summary

The podcast discusses the stereotype of straight men's desires to see their girlfriends hooking up with other women, thinking only in terms of their own pleasure and ownership over their partner. The hosts also discuss the perception of sex and relationships in the 90s and present-day.

Episode
#17 - George Civeris and Sam Taggart
Podcast
Stavvy's World
In this podcast, the speaker advises women to have a healthy cynicism and expose themselves to environments where they can meet individuals that match up to their level of success.
54:03 - 1:00:07 (06:04)
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Relationship
Summary

In this podcast, the speaker advises women to have a healthy cynicism and expose themselves to environments where they can meet individuals that match up to their level of success. The speaker also encourages women to not settle and believe that the right partner who can bring out the best in them exists.

Episode
72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
Podcast
The Psychology of your 20’s
In this podcast, the speaker emphasizes the importance of being a good listener in any relationship.
30:03 - 33:30 (03:27)
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Relationship
Summary

In this podcast, the speaker emphasizes the importance of being a good listener in any relationship. It is crucial to make the other person feel prioritized and to avoid always relying on them for entertainment and decision-making.

Episode
14. Why Nice People Finish Last
Podcast
Aware & Aggravated
The guest emphasizes the importance of being there for others during tough times rather than just being present at celebratory events such as weddings or award ceremonies.
2:14:56 - 2:22:06 (07:09)
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Relationship
Summary

The guest emphasizes the importance of being there for others during tough times rather than just being present at celebratory events such as weddings or award ceremonies. He also highlights the unique bond that is created through the physical contact of martial arts and the significance of striving to listen, enjoy good times, and make time for loved ones.

Episode
Dr. Lex Fridman: Machines, Creativity & Love
Podcast
Huberman Lab
The hosts discuss whether someone who is actively seeking a life partner is more high maintenance compared to someone who is just casually dating.
12:15 - 15:33 (03:18)
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Relationship
Summary

The hosts discuss whether someone who is actively seeking a life partner is more high maintenance compared to someone who is just casually dating.

Episode
791: Math or Magic?
Podcast
This American Life
A couple gets into a fight at the club after one accuses the other of being jealous over another girl dancing with them on stage.
41:41 - 45:00 (03:18)
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Relationship
Summary

A couple gets into a fight at the club after one accuses the other of being jealous over another girl dancing with them on stage.

Episode
1: Season 5 Episode 1 Private Dancer
Podcast
Real Life Real Crime
Brenda expresses sadness and frustration when Jonathan stops taking her calls after she receives a distressing text message.
31:59 - 37:00 (05:01)
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Relationship
Summary

Brenda expresses sadness and frustration when Jonathan stops taking her calls after she receives a distressing text message. Jonathan repeatedly says he is done and threatens to pack up her belongings.

Episode
Behind Door 813
Podcast
Dateline NBC
Taylor and the girl are on a beach.
1:07:34 - 1:13:11 (05:37)
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Relationship
Summary

Taylor and the girl are on a beach.

Episode
129: Gollumfun (Part 2)
Podcast
Darknet Diaries
The speaker feels that when their partner is working, their significant other should not be allowed to interrupt or see them because of their lack of self-control and impulsiveness.
1:08:11 - 1:12:26 (04:14)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker feels that when their partner is working, their significant other should not be allowed to interrupt or see them because of their lack of self-control and impulsiveness.

Episode
All that Juicy T&A with Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix
Podcast
Scheananigans with Scheana Shay
The speaker emphasizes the importance of having an honest conversation in a relationship and including the other person's opinion in decision-making.
1:04:35 - 1:12:42 (08:07)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker emphasizes the importance of having an honest conversation in a relationship and including the other person's opinion in decision-making. This approach helps to avoid one-sided relationships and ensures that both partners feel heard and respected.

Episode
E176: Simon Sinek: The Advice Young People NEED To Hear
Podcast
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
This transcript contains a story about Blake and Emily, who met in church youth camp and took different paths in life, but still ended up together.
02:19 - 08:10 (05:51)
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Relationship
Summary

This transcript contains a story about Blake and Emily, who met in church youth camp and took different paths in life, but still ended up together.

Episode
Three Strikes
Podcast
Sword and Scale Nightmares
The true nature of the relationship between Joan and Betty remains unclear, but Joan hires Betty after feeling lonely following her move out.
14:39 - 21:34 (06:55)
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Relationship
Summary

The true nature of the relationship between Joan and Betty remains unclear, but Joan hires Betty after feeling lonely following her move out. Despite this, their exact relationship remains a mystery.

Episode
The Halloween Love Triangle and The Mysterious "L" Word
Podcast
Murder, Mystery & Makeup
The speaker highlights the significance of investing time and energy in professional, personal, and family relationships to avoid their deterioration.
32:18 - 36:01 (03:42)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker highlights the significance of investing time and energy in professional, personal, and family relationships to avoid their deterioration. They suggest that individuals should articulate their values and surround themselves with friends and relationships that help pursue those values together.

Episode
Relationships with Christina Tosi and Will Guidara
Podcast
A Bit of Optimism
The speaker shares her personal experience of being in a healthy relationship where she still feels infatuated and excited even after four and a half years.
26:30 - 31:58 (05:27)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker shares her personal experience of being in a healthy relationship where she still feels infatuated and excited even after four and a half years. She also realized the importance of having alone time and how it helped her understand that something wasn't right in her life.

Episode
Episode #2 My Birth Control Story
Podcast
Bestie Chats with Soph
If your partner refuses to work on the relationship and attend therapy, it's unlikely that the relationship will improve.
35:02 - 45:08 (10:05)
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Relationship
Summary

If your partner refuses to work on the relationship and attend therapy, it's unlikely that the relationship will improve. It's important to plan and prioritize having fun together to maintain a healthy relationship.

Episode
I Don’t Usually Share Advice Like This: 6 Lessons on Making Any Relationship Work
Podcast
The Mel Robbins Podcast
Overcoming jealousy and insecurities can take time as you unlearn certain behaviors and patterns that you grew up with.
27:22 - 34:32 (07:09)
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Relationship
Summary

Overcoming jealousy and insecurities can take time as you unlearn certain behaviors and patterns that you grew up with. Healthy relationships involve open communication and a willingness to work on issues together.

Episode
You’re not “crazy” - why trusting your gut is SO powerful
Podcast
Date Yourself Instead
The speaker expresses their opinion on how proposing at a movie theater or comedy show is an awkward and unconventional choice.
1:04:45 - 1:06:23 (01:38)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker expresses their opinion on how proposing at a movie theater or comedy show is an awkward and unconventional choice.

Episode
Ep. 03 - 2 Bears 1 Cave 2w/ Tom Segura & Bert Kreischer
Podcast
2 Bears, 1 Cave with Tom Segura & Bert Kreischer
The speaker reflects on their past behavior in a relationship and realizes they were being a bad partner despite their efforts to contribute positively in other areas.
4:20:39 - 4:23:53 (03:13)
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Relationship
Summary

The speaker reflects on their past behavior in a relationship and realizes they were being a bad partner despite their efforts to contribute positively in other areas.

Episode
#45 Bob "Ninja" Poras - CIA / Delta Force Operator | Part 1
Podcast
Shawn Ryan Show