Listen to survivors' stories about toxic relationships, gaslighting, love bombing and their journey to healing in the Let's Start a Coup podcast.
A study has found that people's heart rates start to synchronize when they listen to the same story at different times, which can be a useful tool for improving relationships with others.
The speaker reflects on the importance of finding a partner who helps you grow and be a better person, rather than someone who encourages harmful or negative behaviors. They also discuss how spending time with their partner helps them relax and turn off their busy mind.
The speaker shares how he learned to focus on finding a life partner with similar values rather than getting caught up in small details or personal issues.
A speaker describes their struggle with perfectionism and how it affected their dating life.
The transcript contains fragmented speech on the speaker's feelings about hooking up and coming inside someone."
Giving second chances in a relationship can be difficult as it can establish a pattern of acceptable behavior, leading to repeated mistakes. Holding oneself accountable and having open communication is crucial for a healthy relationship.
The speaker discusses how he relentlessly texted a woman and eventually won her over, despite her initial disinterest.
In this podcast, the speaker talks about the challenges of setting boundaries in relationships and how to find alignment with boundaries without hurting people. She discusses five ways to execute a boundary effectively and addresses the importance of being assertive rather than passive or aggressive.
Mary, a newly separated woman, found an unexpected connection with Keith, the superintendent. Megan's sister later realizes that Mary was a woman their dad had taken to dinner during a rough patch with their mom.
Marike shares how her mother's coma changed her perspective on family and on her own thoughts about the end of her life.
By learning how to replace your sadistic inner tyrant with a supportive inner coach, you are more likely to be a good friend and have better relationships with others, which contributes to your overall happiness and wellbeing.
In this podcast episode, the host shares his personal experience with maintaining healthy relationships, both in marriage and in business, despite working long hours. He emphasizes the importance of having difficult conversations early on and communicating effectively with your partner or co-founder.
The speaker discusses how sexual tension can lead to infidelity in relationships and advises someone to tell a person to kick their partner out of the house to avoid cheating.
The podcast discusses how separation and divorce rates tend to increase at the five and seven year marks in marriages. They also touch on gender differences in coping mechanisms during conflicts within relationships.
Bupender drops Nadia off at his apartment and gives her the car to drive herself home, but she doesn't show up at her parents' house. Bupender plans to drop Nadia off at her parents' house later and hopes to hear from her then.
Benita Alexander discovers that her fiancé Paolo Macchiarini, who claimed to be the personal doctor of the Pope, and promised her a wedding with the Pope officiating, was lying to her, causing her to question everything he had ever told her.
The speaker advises the listener to move on from a woman who is not currently ready for a relationship and instead focus on finding someone new who is available and compatible. The listener is reminded to prioritize their own needs and to believe their partner when they communicate their emotions.
In this episode, the speaker discusses his perspective on relationships and being alone. He shares the importance of experiencing both and talks about how he views them as extra benefits rather than necessities in life.
It's normal to feel scared or hesitant after a breakup, but it's important to address those emotions and not let them prevent you from moving forward and finding someone who is a better fit for you.
The speaker discusses the process of evaluating a potential partner, reflecting on whether attraction and compatibility align to create a fulfilling and lasting relationship.
Talking negatively about an ex or still feeling attraction towards them are red flags that indicate you may not have fully let go and need to examine your emotions. Making a list of physical traits for an ideal partner can also be problematic.
The podcast episode discusses a letter from a woman whose husband cheated on her while she was dying of cancer, a man who left the Air Force Academy because he didn't like being exposed to other people's views, and more.
Katie Halper and Erin Mate discuss a story shared by a wedding planner about catching a partner being breastfed by their mother, and how it could be a deal breaker.
The podcast discusses the difference between polyamory and monogamy. Polyamory involves having multiple romantic and often sexual relationships at once, while monogamy is characterized by having one sexual partner.
Abby and her husband explained in a TikTok video that they haven't been sleeping together due to their son still waking up in the night and Abby being pregnant. They advise seeking a counselor for serious relationship advice.
The speakers discuss a scenario where a man cheats on his girlfriend and breaks into another girl's house to sleep with her, leading to awkward situations and serious potential consequences.
The speaker shares a personal anecdote of an awkward moment with a partner in bed and discusses his thoughts on women faking orgasms.
The fear of losing someone, aiming to please someone or being aggressive is caused by personal insecurities, such as the fear of open relationships that are hard to deal with.
Jules and Khalilah discuss the concept of favoritism in relationships, particularly between siblings, and the importance of fairness.
The ethics of dating and manipulation are discussed, with a focus on the potentially harmful consequences of pursuing relationships with individuals who may not be fully capable of giving consent.
The speaker shares a story about a friend's troubled relationship and the suspicion of infidelity, comparing it to how female serial killers are treated differently than male serial killers.
The speaker talks about the importance of building strong relationships with others, especially in a professional setting like a movie set. She mentions how being vulnerable and open about one's feelings can create a positive and enjoyable environment.
Mel shares a real-time situation her daughter is going through - when someone you like suddenly starts having a crush on one of your friends. Mel explains that it's much bigger than the topic itself - it's about being in the middle of an emotional tsunami and trying to regain your power back.
An account of an odd relationship intertwined with marijuana consumption, along with a story of abduction for ransom in a creepy town called Seaside in Washington.
The beginning of serious committed relationships may involve deceit and betrayal from both parties, as was the case for the guest's parents who left their significant others for each other.
A person begins to question the wording a friend uses when talking about their new relationship and the behavior requested by their partner.
The speaker shares the impact of people who have been good to him, including his sister, wife, and employers who gave him a chance for new, clean opportunities in life. He realized that many of his past relationships were based on what he could give rather than just being him.
The speaker discusses an inappropriate conversation he had with a man about his sex life and marriage, suggesting that the man should be grateful for any sexual intimacy he receives from his wife.
Chidera Eggerue talks about the impact of internalized misogyny and patriarchy on women's relationships with men, and the importance of relearning healthy relationship dynamics. Attachment styles, as shaped through parental relationships, can be an important factor in how women approach dating and relationships.
The transcript discusses the feeling of meeting the person you know you will marry and the anxiety surrounding finding a life partner.
The speaker denies being clingy or pestering his ex-girlfriend when she ended the relationship or took a break. They remained friends and talked about things like people they met at their jobs.
This episode encourages the listener to reflect on their relationships and identify who adds value to their life and who may need to be let go, while also emphasizing the importance of being true to oneself and not comparing oneself to others.
The speaker expresses the importance of vulnerability in her relationship and how it strengthens their connection. She acknowledges that although it can be scary to let down walls and show emotions, it ultimately leads to deeper intimacy and satisfaction.
A discussion on the pros and cons of having a partner to rely on during tasks such as travelling with children and grocery shopping, while also acknowledging the need for communication and commitment to time management.
Marriage and productivity are discussed in this podcast episode, and how simply changing the title of a relationship does not necessarily enhance productivity.
Susan shares about an uncomfortable conversation with her friend Josh and her dream about an ex-boyfriend.
The speaker shares advice on finding love by first loving oneself and then seeking out individuals who share the same self-love philosophy. She speaks from personal experience and encourages listeners to be honest with themselves about their romantic preferences.
The speaker discusses the challenges of fame and dating, mentioning how being well-known may not necessarily mean that people like you and how men may not be faithful if they have plenty of options.
In this episode, the speaker highlights the importance of relationships and how every individual is in a relationship in some way or the other. The episode will shed light on two mindset shifts that can help people transform their relationships.
Travis tells his friends that Jodi broke into his Facebook and decides to break things off with her.
A couple discusses their strategy in balancing communication with one another throughout the day, suggesting that they minimize texting and call each other only during the mornings and evenings.
The podcast discusses the issues with living arrangements and relationships, citing an example of a couple that spends most of their time in one partner's apartment despite the poor living conditions caused by the other partner's roommates.
The speaker notes that in a relationship, there might be times when one person feels like their partner is hiding something or finds their behavior suspicious, leading to feelings of paranoia. It is important to trust your gut and address any issues in the relationship.
Advice for how to manage spending extended periods of time together during quarantine as a couple and how this experience can strengthen a relationship.
In this podcast, the speaker discusses the topic of serial marriages and muses over the analogy of the ups and downs of marriage being similar to a heartbeat.
The speaker discusses whether or not to ask for a father's blessing before proposing to his partner, despite their families being modern.
The biggest takeaway from the book 10 years ago was the fact that Warren had two wives, his first wife installed another person who hooked him up with another woman.
The speaker describes her efforts to keep things exciting in her sex life, including arranging for special treats and being attentive to her partner's needs.
In this snippet, the speaker discusses the process of unkoupling, including the freedom it can bring and the necessary emotions that come with it.
Catherine's mother warned her future husband, David, that he better watch out because Catherine was a physically dominant figure who was not afraid to get physical with men. Despite the warning, they still got married.
The speaker discusses the pressure to conform to societal expectations in her relationship, specifically around issues of weight and appearance, and the impact that can have on relationships.
Blake apologizes to Yana while they are out shopping for a stroller with her mom, Olga. Olga notices that Blake is extra stressed and wants to be there for her daughter during this difficult time.
The speaker discusses their experience of learning how their partner viewed them through conversations with family members, leading the speaker to appreciate their partner more and hold onto their relationship. Despite stress, the speaker notes their partner's patience with difficult situations.
In this podcast, the speakers discuss the art of messing with people, particularly when it comes to unexpected moments. They also entertain the idea of moving in with someone, and the nuances of how that might work out.
The speaker discusses her complicated relationship with Betty, who has provided both emotional support and funding for her. She reveals the tense atmosphere when visiting Betty and reflects on the lack of accountability in their relationship.
The speaker talks about their improved relationship with a person named John and their discovery of a saint named St. Amos.
