Listen to survivors' stories about toxic relationships, gaslighting, love bombing and their journey to healing in the Let's Start a Coup podcast.
This podcast episode discusses the idea of compatibility and how physical attraction, decision-making, values, and attachment style play a role in relationships. The hosts also touch on the low success rate of dating apps leading to committed relationships that last.
Tim and his guest discuss the complexities of marriage and the difficulty of remembering that their partner has a soul, a desire, and a preference different from their own.
The speaker recalls a lesson he learned on being more considerate and respectful towards women during a date. He relates this to women who live stream on social media platforms like Twitch and Periscope.
Putting in extra effort and learning the skill of relationships can help combat loneliness and anxiety. The law of diffusion explains how ideas spread and how to make things sticky.
A speaker describes their struggle with perfectionism and how it affected their dating life.
In this episode, the speaker shares her thoughts on the importance of feeling special in a relationship, being genuine when expressing feelings, and not entertaining other options. She also talks about her dislike for people who pretend to have multiple options or act superior after being given a chance.
The speaker shares their realization that when you like someone, you can only like them, and the importance of avoiding insecurities in relationships.
A woman expresses concern about her friend's new boyfriend after meeting him, and suggests boogie boarding as a more suitable activity for a tough woman.
The importance of effective communication in relationships, and how miscommunication can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
The speaker discusses the different male archetypes in relationships, with a focus on how sigma males differ from alpha males in their approach to women.
The speaker talks about the reality of love and how it's not always perfect, and shares a personal anecdote about being unfaithful in a past relationship.
Marike shares how her mother's coma changed her perspective on family and on her own thoughts about the end of her life.
This episode discusses the importance of open and honest communication in adult relationships, as well as the potential consequences of not being clear and direct with our words.
The speaker values finding deep connections rather than serial dating and likes to play with ideas through memory and cognition exploration but is careful due to the growing platform of certain kinds of female interest.
The speaker suggests finding a partner by looking for individuals that match your emotional state and energy rather than ticking off boxes on a checklist.
The speaker discusses recalling memories of previous relationships while working at a convenience store and mentions an episode of their podcast. They also mention asking for help in regards to their personal relationship.
Benita Alexander discovers that her fiancé Paolo Macchiarini, who claimed to be the personal doctor of the Pope, and promised her a wedding with the Pope officiating, was lying to her, causing her to question everything he had ever told her.
The speaker advises the listener to move on from a woman who is not currently ready for a relationship and instead focus on finding someone new who is available and compatible. The listener is reminded to prioritize their own needs and to believe their partner when they communicate their emotions.
The speaker describes his wife in the gym, wearing black yoga pants and a red tank top, and how meeting her made his life better.
The diary of a CEO discusses the difference in perception between comments on Instagram and those on YouTube, particularly in relation to the Manosphere community. The guest emphasizes the importance of building relationships with people who share similar interests and values.
Building meaningful relationships while striving for personal goals can positively impact physical health and overall success. Focusing solely on achievement can lead to increased levels of inflammation and a toll on mental health.
It's crucial for couples to have direct conversations about their values and interests in order to make informed decisions together about their future plans. Being honest and true to oneself is key to finding and attracting the right partner.
The podcast discusses the difference between polyamory and monogamy. Polyamory involves having multiple romantic and often sexual relationships at once, while monogamy is characterized by having one sexual partner.
The speaker shares a personal anecdote of an awkward moment with a partner in bed and discusses his thoughts on women faking orgasms.
The fear of losing someone, aiming to please someone or being aggressive is caused by personal insecurities, such as the fear of open relationships that are hard to deal with.
The ethics of dating and manipulation are discussed, with a focus on the potentially harmful consequences of pursuing relationships with individuals who may not be fully capable of giving consent.
The hosts discuss their various approaches to texting their crushes and the importance of not seeming too desperate or too disinterested.
A listener shares her struggles with a toxic relationship and her hopes for her partner to become a better version of himself, while also acknowledging the need for change in herself and finding empowerment through new realizations.
The experience of outgrowing friendships is natural and even beneficial. As we grow and change, it's important to prioritize the ability to enjoy time alone and let go of relationships that no longer serve us, allowing us to find new versions of ourselves and new people who match our energy and identity.
A listener asks for advice on how to involve their partner's parents in their relationship in a healthy way while still maintaining boundaries. The hosts discuss the importance of communication and setting boundaries to establish a positive dynamic.
An account of an odd relationship intertwined with marijuana consumption, along with a story of abduction for ransom in a creepy town called Seaside in Washington.
The beginning of serious committed relationships may involve deceit and betrayal from both parties, as was the case for the guest's parents who left their significant others for each other.
A person begins to question the wording a friend uses when talking about their new relationship and the behavior requested by their partner.
The speaker discusses a relationship where the girl's parents disapproved of their daughter's boyfriend and how the boyfriend's behavior was inappropriate and reflected unhealthy dynamics within the relationship.
The speaker shares the impact of people who have been good to him, including his sister, wife, and employers who gave him a chance for new, clean opportunities in life. He realized that many of his past relationships were based on what he could give rather than just being him.
The speaker discusses the importance of emotional connection in building relationships and humorously complains about having to address relationship issues on Twitter.
In this episode, the host talks about the importance of choosing a compatible partner by sharing a story of a wealthy couple who divorced because the wife made the mistake of cheating on her husband. She also shares how her husband complements her by enjoying doing things she hates, like technical tasks such as managing emails.
The transcript discusses the feeling of meeting the person you know you will marry and the anxiety surrounding finding a life partner.
The process of asking and answering questions about important topics can lead to deeper connections with others, as it helps to break down barriers and enables people to open up and share their thoughts and feelings. This can be especially beneficial for first dates, roommates, or anyone looking to build stronger relationships.
This episode encourages the listener to reflect on their relationships and identify who adds value to their life and who may need to be let go, while also emphasizing the importance of being true to oneself and not comparing oneself to others.
The speaker initially felt some trepidation about potentially bracing for impact while filming, fearing a marriage and a divorce. Both parties in the conversation found each other quite intense at work.
The speaker emphasizes the need for more date nights in her relationship and encourages others to do the same, given that it is a common issue for many couples.
A woman expresses concern about her partner's drinking habits, which seem to have started around the same time he began having an affair. The couple moved to a new town to escape the affair, but the drinking persisted.
Marriage and productivity are discussed in this podcast episode, and how simply changing the title of a relationship does not necessarily enhance productivity.
The speaker shares her experience of living with a partner who didn't share her love language and how it impacted their daily lives.
The speaker describes the physical feeling of her gut intuition telling her something was off in a conversation with her partner. She details the struggle of balancing her instincts with staying present in the conversation and unpacking the dishonesty with her partner.
The speaker shares advice on finding love by first loving oneself and then seeking out individuals who share the same self-love philosophy. She speaks from personal experience and encourages listeners to be honest with themselves about their romantic preferences.
In this episode, the speaker highlights the importance of relationships and how every individual is in a relationship in some way or the other. The episode will shed light on two mindset shifts that can help people transform their relationships.
Travis tells his friends that Jodi broke into his Facebook and decides to break things off with her.
A conversation about exclusive relationships and doubts
The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking time to process past relationships before starting a new one in order to avoid carrying excessive emotional baggage. They also discuss age and the role of technology in modern relationships.
The host discusses the purpose of her podcast and shares a personal story about her marriage and getting a rose trellis with her husband.
The hosts discuss the importance of honesty in relationships and how it can impact trust between partners.
Ellis questions Susan about her argument with Josh leaving in the middle of the night to take the boys with their only car during a snowstorm when they both needed to work. Susan remembers talking to Josh about the boys doing s'mores and Ellis questions her about their Saturday night without a clear answer on what they did.
The biggest takeaway from the book 10 years ago was the fact that Warren had two wives, his first wife installed another person who hooked him up with another woman.
The speaker describes her efforts to keep things exciting in her sex life, including arranging for special treats and being attentive to her partner's needs.
In this snippet, the speaker discusses the process of unkoupling, including the freedom it can bring and the necessary emotions that come with it.
Catherine's mother warned her future husband, David, that he better watch out because Catherine was a physically dominant figure who was not afraid to get physical with men. Despite the warning, they still got married.
The speaker discusses how sometimes his wife's anger can be amusing to him, despite her genuine frustration.
The guest speaker discusses the impact of sex on women, quoting the idea that every time a woman has sex with a man, she splits in half, and after seven partners, their preferences become influenced by their entire sexual history.
A conversation about preferring playboy bunnies or sexy nurses over one's girlfriend for one-night stands.
A woman shares an interesting and awkward breakup story from the 1980s, where she surprises her ex-boyfriend in his bedroom and has a pre-planned conversation.
Gypsy had no prior knowledge or experience with relationships, making it difficult to have a successful one, let alone explore BDSM. She and her boyfriend came up with a plan to meet at a movie theater to spend time together without Dee Dee's interference.
A woman shares her story of eloping while still in a relationship and how she is now struggling with the repercussions.
The speaker reflects on a past relationship and expresses regret at not being able to share the nice moments with others. They also express resentment towards the other person in the relationship for not being genuine and causing hurt.
The speaker discusses the potential negative impact of couples heavily relying on social media to communicate and display their affection, citing it as a red flag for a dysfunctional relationship.
