Listen to survivors' stories about toxic relationships, gaslighting, love bombing and their journey to healing in the Let's Start a Coup podcast.
This episode discusses overcoming fear in relationships and committing to the other person. The hosts assure listeners that they will not be attacked for showing vulnerability.
All relationships involve contradictory feelings and thoughts, which means that relational ambivalence is part and parcel of all our relationships. It is important to understand what is important to you and not get involved with someone hoping things will change.
Learn how to calm your emotions and process situations logically in order to make more thoughtful decisions in your relationships. It's important to choose to truly love someone instead of just liking the idea of loving them.
A speaker describes their struggle with perfectionism and how it affected their dating life.
The speaker shares a story of how she met her partner whom she has been inseparable with and talks about the dedication and commitment of junior college athletes.
The speaker reflects on the purpose of having a dog instead of a child, as it provides a sense of care and protection that can be beneficial to adults without children.
Detaching from a toxic relationship can be challenging but is crucial for mental and emotional wellbeing. Setting healthy boundaries is important to protect oneself and self-worth while creating new thought patterns and focusing on the future aids in moving on.
A woman expresses concern about her friend's new boyfriend after meeting him, and suggests boogie boarding as a more suitable activity for a tough woman.
The speaker discusses his perspective on age differences in relationships and mentions feeling too old for younger individuals.
The speaker discusses the different male archetypes in relationships, with a focus on how sigma males differ from alpha males in their approach to women.
Marike shares how her mother's coma changed her perspective on family and on her own thoughts about the end of her life.
The speaker believes that playing offense in relationships can often lead to a counter-attack, which is why he checks his friends when they try to please everyone and remain loyal to multiple people simultaneously.
By learning how to replace your sadistic inner tyrant with a supportive inner coach, you are more likely to be a good friend and have better relationships with others, which contributes to your overall happiness and wellbeing.
The concept of mutual benefit is often overlooked but is crucial in building successful relationships, whether in a lab or in general. It involves understanding that both parties should benefit and acknowledging this openly.
The speaker discusses how her husband struggled with feeling ashamed over not earning as much money as her, but emphasizes that a person's worth is not solely determined by their income.
The speaker discusses how sexual tension can lead to infidelity in relationships and advises someone to tell a person to kick their partner out of the house to avoid cheating.
The podcast discusses the significance of cultivating relationships in the midst of the pandemic and how they have been affected by this global crisis.
The podcast discusses the difference between accepting and loving people versus wanting to change them. It stresses the importance of connection, acceptance, and love in building closer relationships with people.
After learning that her new boyfriend's wife was murdered, Vanessa's parents felt they had no choice but to support her, even though they didn't get the answers they were looking for.
Benita Alexander discovers that her fiancé Paolo Macchiarini, who claimed to be the personal doctor of the Pope, and promised her a wedding with the Pope officiating, was lying to her, causing her to question everything he had ever told her.
The hosts discuss the ups and downs of relationships on social media and emphasize the importance of being open about these imperfections. They also stress the need to prioritize one's own happiness and well-being above all else.
The speaker advises the listener to move on from a woman who is not currently ready for a relationship and instead focus on finding someone new who is available and compatible. The listener is reminded to prioritize their own needs and to believe their partner when they communicate their emotions.
The speaker recounts an awkward moment during intimacy with his girlfriend when they were talking about past sexual experiences and his girlfriend compared his penis to a unicorn, causing the mood to shift and become uncomfortable.
In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the importance of understanding relationships before reacting to situations and how anger may not always be the most helpful response.
The episode features a man sharing his experience of giving his girlfriend a monthly allowance and eventually, her request for him to receive oral sex from someone else.
The podcast discusses the difference between polyamory and monogamy. Polyamory involves having multiple romantic and often sexual relationships at once, while monogamy is characterized by having one sexual partner.
This episode discusses the repercussions of a friend sleeping with someone you had a crush on and how it can create a sense of betrayal and mistrust in the friendship.
During a conversation, the speaker discusses the importance of building relationships based on respect and admiration. He shares a personal anecdote about a secret family in Arizona and how the behavior of certain family members impacted their relationships.
Abby and her husband explained in a TikTok video that they haven't been sleeping together due to their son still waking up in the night and Abby being pregnant. They advise seeking a counselor for serious relationship advice.
The speaker shares a personal anecdote of an awkward moment with a partner in bed and discusses his thoughts on women faking orgasms.
The fear of losing someone, aiming to please someone or being aggressive is caused by personal insecurities, such as the fear of open relationships that are hard to deal with.
Jules and Khalilah discuss the concept of favoritism in relationships, particularly between siblings, and the importance of fairness.
The ethics of dating and manipulation are discussed, with a focus on the potentially harmful consequences of pursuing relationships with individuals who may not be fully capable of giving consent.
An account of an odd relationship intertwined with marijuana consumption, along with a story of abduction for ransom in a creepy town called Seaside in Washington.
The beginning of serious committed relationships may involve deceit and betrayal from both parties, as was the case for the guest's parents who left their significant others for each other.
The podcast discusses concerns about a friend's safety who may be in a potentially harmful relationship with a non-resident boyfriend who is staying with her roommate, and may be getting a gun to keep with her. Additionally, the friend has expressed worry that the boyfriend has been tracking her, and that the friend is not taking proper care of herself.
The speaker discusses a relationship where the girl's parents disapproved of their daughter's boyfriend and how the boyfriend's behavior was inappropriate and reflected unhealthy dynamics within the relationship.
The speaker shares the impact of people who have been good to him, including his sister, wife, and employers who gave him a chance for new, clean opportunities in life. He realized that many of his past relationships were based on what he could give rather than just being him.
The speaker discusses an inappropriate conversation he had with a man about his sex life and marriage, suggesting that the man should be grateful for any sexual intimacy he receives from his wife.
In this episode, the host talks about the importance of choosing a compatible partner by sharing a story of a wealthy couple who divorced because the wife made the mistake of cheating on her husband. She also shares how her husband complements her by enjoying doing things she hates, like technical tasks such as managing emails.
The transcript discusses the feeling of meeting the person you know you will marry and the anxiety surrounding finding a life partner.
Aaron and guest speaker discuss the deal-breaking scenario of catching your partner being breastfed by their mother.
The speaker emphasizes the need for more date nights in her relationship and encourages others to do the same, given that it is a common issue for many couples.
A person describes their intense anger and feelings of betrayal towards their partner after discovering their infidelity and confronts them.
The speaker discusses the importance of setting boundaries in a relationship, and how to communicate those boundaries effectively to one's partner.
The speaker reflects on a past relationship and feeling seen by their partner in their entirety. They attribute this to their intuition and being sober.
Marriage and productivity are discussed in this podcast episode, and how simply changing the title of a relationship does not necessarily enhance productivity.
Susan shares about an uncomfortable conversation with her friend Josh and her dream about an ex-boyfriend.
In this episode, the speaker highlights the importance of relationships and how every individual is in a relationship in some way or the other. The episode will shed light on two mindset shifts that can help people transform their relationships.
The speaker is busy having sex with people who aren't present and suggests that anyone who doesn't like it can move on and find someone else.
Travis tells his friends that Jodi broke into his Facebook and decides to break things off with her.
The podcast discusses the issues with living arrangements and relationships, citing an example of a couple that spends most of their time in one partner's apartment despite the poor living conditions caused by the other partner's roommates.
This podcast episode discusses the challenges of dealing with needy individuals and the importance of setting boundaries. The speaker shares personal experiences and offers advice on how to interact with needy people without compromising your own well-being.
The speaker notes that in a relationship, there might be times when one person feels like their partner is hiding something or finds their behavior suspicious, leading to feelings of paranoia. It is important to trust your gut and address any issues in the relationship.
The host discusses the purpose of her podcast and shares a personal story about her marriage and getting a rose trellis with her husband.
The biggest takeaway from the book 10 years ago was the fact that Warren had two wives, his first wife installed another person who hooked him up with another woman.
The use of dieting metaphors in relationships signifies unhealthy competition among women. Bringing context to stories of toxic relationships should not imply that someone deserved to be murdered, but rather shed light on the destructive pattern of unhealthy behavior.
The speaker describes her efforts to keep things exciting in her sex life, including arranging for special treats and being attentive to her partner's needs.
The speaker believes that the concept of "The One" is a toxic idea as it relies on conditions and management, and it is not a true representation of reality.
Catherine's mother warned her future husband, David, that he better watch out because Catherine was a physically dominant figure who was not afraid to get physical with men. Despite the warning, they still got married.
The hosts discuss the varying sizes of toes and how they relate to being a good or bad friend. They also mention the common occurrence of a longer second toe.
The speaker shares their experience of feeling like they disappointed their past partners, but expresses their devotion to their current relationship which started during quarantine through playing video games online.
Gypsy had no prior knowledge or experience with relationships, making it difficult to have a successful one, let alone explore BDSM. She and her boyfriend came up with a plan to meet at a movie theater to spend time together without Dee Dee's interference.
In this podcast, the speakers discuss the art of messing with people, particularly when it comes to unexpected moments. They also entertain the idea of moving in with someone, and the nuances of how that might work out.
The hosts discuss a story about a friend named Elliot who has fallen for someone online but can't provide any proof of their existence, leaving them wondering if Elliot is the victim or the grifter.
The speaker discusses a vulnerable conversation with their partner about their readiness to commit to marriage. They reach out to their partner to arrange a meeting to further discuss their feelings.
