Episode
5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
Description
In this episode, you’re about to learn how to make your new habits stick. If you’ve struggled to be consistent with behavior change, you’re not alone. It’s easy to talk about habits. It’s a whole different thing to apply the science to your life. You are not the problem. The problem, when it comes to habits, is the lack of systems and hacks that help you stay consistent. There are 5 very specific, simple systems backed by science that you have to have in place if you want to make your new habits stick for good. It doesn’t matter if you’ve already bailed on your New Year’s resolutions or if the only habit you think you’re successful at is failing at habits. I’ve got you. If your treadmill just became the most expensive laundry hanger you’ve ever purchased, then this episode is for you. I’ll say it again: It’s not you; it’s your lack of systems. Stop relying on willpower to get you through. That’s not what you need. The research says you need systems. Today, I’ll teach you 5 essential ones. Let’s go, because your behavior toolkit masterclass series continues. Xo Mel For full show notes, including all research mentioned in the episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast. For a free workbook that dives deeper into the topic of habits and helps you apply what you learn, click here. This episode works together with the episode “The Ultimate Toolkit for Creating New Habits.” After you finish this one, check out that episode here. This episode, you’ll learn:1:36: Why it’s important to understand how to make habits stick4:50: The 75-day challenge I’ve taken on this year 9:30: The honest conversation you need to have with yourself before any change13:35: What to do if you don’t even know where to start with habits15:55: The five systems that will help you finally stick to your habits24:00: A simple hack from Harvard Business School to help you make better decisions28:25: The simple trick that helped people be twice as successful at quitting smoking32:40: The M&M experiment that proves decision fatigue is a real thing38:24: Why tracking your progress is non-negotiable 49:30: The plan that will save your promises to yourself51:35: The “keys to the kingdom” – establish this habit and others will follow more easily Disclaimer
Chapters
This podcast episode discusses the science of habits and offers simple and easy ways to make new habits stick, including a mental toughness challenge and a tip using Post-it notes.
00:00 - 02:40 (02:40)
Summary
This podcast episode discusses the science of habits and offers simple and easy ways to make new habits stick, including a mental toughness challenge and a tip using Post-it notes.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
The speaker talks about applying the knowledge gained about habits to new ones.
02:40 - 10:13 (07:33)
Summary
The speaker talks about applying the knowledge gained about habits to new ones. He shares his experience of choosing to eat a healthy, gluten-free, and dairy-free diet for 75 days but mentions that the 75 hard challenge is not a realistic approach to forming habits.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
By being laser-focused on what matters to you and how you spend your time, you can reclaim it and achieve a surge of power.
10:13 - 17:54 (07:40)
Summary
By being laser-focused on what matters to you and how you spend your time, you can reclaim it and achieve a surge of power. Practicing discipline and keeping promises to yourself can help you achieve your goals and become more productive.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Scary and hard challenges force you to level up in every area of your life and create new habits and systems in order to achieve them.
17:54 - 24:24 (06:30)
Summary
Scary and hard challenges force you to level up in every area of your life and create new habits and systems in order to achieve them. Using simple systems and physical cues can help keep you organized and consistent in your changes.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
The speaker talks about the restocking of the mini-fridge with non-alcoholic beverages to prevent falling back into drinking habits and mentions the variety of drinks available after hearing from the sponsors.
24:24 - 27:34 (03:10)
Summary
The speaker talks about the restocking of the mini-fridge with non-alcoholic beverages to prevent falling back into drinking habits and mentions the variety of drinks available after hearing from the sponsors.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Planning and preparing for future decisions can make your life easier and reduce decision fatigue, saving more energy for meaningful tasks.
27:34 - 32:12 (04:37)
Summary
Planning and preparing for future decisions can make your life easier and reduce decision fatigue, saving more energy for meaningful tasks. By making decisions for your future self, you can ensure that you avoid bad decisions in the moment.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Learn the power of setting up simple systems, such as setting alarms in your phone, to help make you twice as successful in achieving your goals and overcoming bad habits.
32:12 - 35:56 (03:44)
Summary
Learn the power of setting up simple systems, such as setting alarms in your phone, to help make you twice as successful in achieving your goals and overcoming bad habits. Removing distractions, like your phone from your bedroom, can also make a big impact.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
The key to staying on track with your goals is to track your progress.
35:56 - 42:44 (06:48)
Summary
The key to staying on track with your goals is to track your progress. This can be done by using a paper system that is visible for you like the bathroom mirror.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Studies have shown that monitoring your progress towards a goal increases the chance of achieving it.
42:44 - 46:28 (03:43)
Summary
Studies have shown that monitoring your progress towards a goal increases the chance of achieving it. It is important to track progress regularly and outside of your mind to empower you and enable you to get back on track after inevitable setbacks.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
The speaker jumps from one topic to another without a clear point, mentioning going to a brother's house and worrying about working out while in Southern Vermont with snow on the ground.
46:28 - 52:48 (06:19)
Summary
The speaker jumps from one topic to another without a clear point, mentioning going to a brother's house and worrying about working out while in Southern Vermont with snow on the ground.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Getting up early and doing important tasks in the morning is key, but creating an if-then plan can help you stay on task and achieve goals.
52:48 - 57:09 (04:21)
Summary
Getting up early and doing important tasks in the morning is key, but creating an if-then plan can help you stay on task and achieve goals. Removing your phone from the bedroom is one example of an if-then plan that can trigger positive change.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
Get up earlier, get organized, and start chipping away at changes with this free early morning challenge that promises to help you have more control of your time before the day gets too hectic.
57:09 - 1:01:54 (04:44)
Summary
Get up earlier, get organized, and start chipping away at changes with this free early morning challenge that promises to help you have more control of your time before the day gets too hectic.
Episode5 Essential Hacks I’m Using to Make New Habits Stick
PodcastThe Mel Robbins Podcast
This clip highlights the importance of getting out of your own head and surrounding yourself with a supportive community to create positive behavior changes and personal growth.
1:01:54 - 1:05:21 (03:27)
Summary
This clip highlights the importance of getting out of your own head and surrounding yourself with a supportive community to create positive behavior changes and personal growth.